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Bondage Experiences posted: 06/13/06 at 1:31 AM
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OK, I'm looking at adding bondage to our lives and I'd love to hear some experiences from people so I can get some ideas of how to play out a night. Who got tied up? Where? What did you use for the bondage? Any blindfolds or gags? What did you do during the time?

I'm just looking for how others have experienced a "night" for some ideas.

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posted: 06/21/06 at 11:19 PM

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My girl and I use some of my old ties. She doesn't like to be blindfolded so we don't use that. When I tie her down I like to use ice cubes to tease her (mostly on her breast) and massage oil. Sometimes in the summer it is fun to turn off the air and crack the windows then tie her spread eagle to the bed. Between the heat and the teasing I can really make her work up a sweat!

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posted: 06/23/06 at 10:48 AM

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Initially, we used nylon thigh highs and a black scarf for a blindfold. "During the time" you can caress, tease, tickle and if so desired by both, spank, ice, candlewax, food. What we like about bondage is that it can be soft and sensual, or wild and crazy....Since then we have built up a "trunk-o-fun"...

Just be sure communication beforehand is clear and limits are set. Start off slowly and work your way up - don't try and create a huge scene all at once the first time. Make sure you set a code word and that you have the tools needed to end the play immediately. A bad first bondage experience can be the last bondage experience and that's too bad - it's really fun and erotic...

Good luck and enjoy, just be safe.

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posted: 07/14/06 at 4:34 AM

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If you're using ties and stuff, just make sure you don't get them in too much of a knot so you can't un-do them... or get them stuck to the bed so you can't move... major turn off!!

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posted: 07/14/06 at 7:01 AM

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I have a cashmere scarf that I like to use as a blindfold.

It's always me that gets tied up when I am with my man. It's either to the bed (spread eagle) or from a wooden rod hanging from the ceiling.

We use wrist and ankle cuffs, and knots that are easy to undo (but won't undo when we don't want them to).

Definitely start light. You can get some "beginner cuffs" and a blindfold at your local sex shop, or online. Then use your imagination. It's only by trial and error that you will determine what you both like.

Have fun, and be safe!

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posted: 07/16/06 at 12:49 PM

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For the sake of simplicity, I'd say go get some detachable (and attachable) cuffs and so on, some really long lengths of rope or other material. Then use your imagination.

Personally, I love being tied up. He can tie me open on the bed, fasten my arms up to my elbows firmly behind me, or have a system that doesn't require objects to fasten onto and tie, for instance, my wrists to my ankles. Also, you might want to remember that the rope can be run between the legs for stimulation, which is much easier to do to a female but rather risky for a male. During the time, I need to know that I am helpless and that he can have his way with me. If you're starting out without toys, just use your hands..and other fleshly appendages. Remember, a bound person cannot make demands, and your job is to make sure that their desires are raging. And they get to learn that you choose whether or not the desire gets fulfilled.

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posted: 09/09/06 at 9:43 PM

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I like real metal police handcuffs and I like it when she ties my hands through the bars of the headboard, with me on my back and completely naked. I am hard just typing about this. It drives me absolutely crazy and I am in heaven when she reaches for my hard, wet c'ock. I love sucking her breasts and kissing her passionately when she comes close enough to allow this. Eye contact is important, along with her being completely naked so I can see everything. Mmmmmm. I also love it when we have phone sex and she orders me to put my handcuffs on and then tells me to pump, all the while she is fingering herself and we cum together. It's glorious. Mmmmmmm. Now where is she?

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posted: 09/11/06 at 3:22 AM

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I've used the police metal handcuffs, and I like being blindfolded and blindfolding my guy. Not something we do a lot, but very fun when we do...you're at the mercy of the other person and its great

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posted: 09/14/06 at 6:49 AM

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Exactly, my. That's awesome. Among the top 2 or 3 sexual acts that I absolutely love, but I'm the submissive one in bed. Like the woman to take control.

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posted: 09/25/06 at 3:47 AM

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be careful with the ties with a lot of strugglin these sometimes can cut opff the ciruclation and sometimes are impossible to loosen knots. if you use ties be careful and observe tht as a possible downside and something that must be dealt with in a hurry

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