Hello,
i have been browsing these boards for a long time..
i met the most wonderful man online a few months ago..and we were both so mady in love and planned to meet in january.
sadly i get a call from his best friend las night that my guy and his brother wre in a fatal car wreck because a drunk driver hit them..i am so devastated and cant stop crying.
he messaged me and told me he would meet me online in 1 hour as he had to go to store..he told me how much he loved me and mssed me..3 hours past and i was so worried ..only to get a call that he was killed in car wreck..him and his brother..
and what is even more sad is that he just lost his dad to heart attack 7 days ago..
i feel so helpless and so sad..
all i have now is our memories of love...i am grieving so bad now.
has anyone else experienced loosing someone that they met online from tragic accident or death..
i feel so lonely and helpless now..
Oh wow! I'm, sorry for your loss; you must be in shock! Have you been in touch with his best friend or any family member since the news to help comfort you in your grief? It must be hard grieving in silence especially since you had not met yet.
Take care of yourself
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Worry is the dark room where negatives develop! Focus on the positives...
I know how you feel Exactly! I fell in love with a guy online. And we were madly in love. And one night I've been talking to him.. Or so I thought.. And he never once said he was dying and in the hospital from H1N1. I had been talking to him through his nurse.. In whom he pleaded to text me..and talk.. About 3 hours later.. He scares me.. By saying " I'm so sorry I never told you. I love you so much. And you'll always be in my heart no matter where I am. And I'll always love you and see you again someday." at this point I was crying my eyes out and still am.. And asking no demanding he tell me what he was talking about.. The last words he said to me were.. Your the love of my life. Listen to our song my love. And take care of Ezra. And he died at 2:54am November 11th.. (Ezras our daughter. Now I'm boyfriendless and Ezras fatherless. I'm still greiving and crying. And have barely slept in these past few days.. I know how you feel.. :'(
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~I love you enough to know when to be set free~
{{hugs}} my condolences on your loss. It's obvious that you were a special part of his life too. Otherwise the friend would not have known to contact you. That you were informed is small comfort but it's something.
ty all for your condolences..
it has been so hard..i loved him so much and he loved me..
his last words to me were that " he loved me and missed me and would see me in 1 hour" well he did not make it home..
drunk driver killed him and his brother brother both..so tragic..
they just lost their dad 7 days ago and now his mom has to burie 2 sons..
she is so sweet lady..she told me how much real really loved me and was so anxious to meet in january..
i am trying to be so song...i loved him so much...
his friend and sister have tried to keep in contact with me..they know how much he loved me..
sighss..sorry i cant stop crying...
i loved that man...!!
This is so terrible! I cannot even imagine going through that. I feel so sad for you, and I'm starting to tear up thinking about how I would feel if I were in your shoes. **hugs**
I'll be sending prayers your way for strength and understanding.
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Proud girlfriend of a Navy Reservist. I love my sailor.
You know you love someone when no matter what the weather is it somehow reminds you of that person - 8/2/09 text from my SO
Thanks all of you for your prayers..i know i will heal in time..
i just loved him sooo much..we had plans to meet in january..
i feel so lost..but coming to this board has helped...
posted: 11/17/09 at 1:22 AM
