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Romantic Ideas to do in Hotel room posted: 10/23/07 at 12:43 AM
Lady in IL  [more]
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So I booked a hotel room and want to plan an evening of fun. The room was booked because we don't have a private home type of place to go. The hotel is going to be more of a home away from home kind of date. I was thinking maybe have a pajama night and cuddle in bed while watching a scary movie. Maybe bring some music and dance together in the room. Maybe bring a board game or something to play. I need ideas...what to do in this room that might be romantic...or things that will add a romantic touch. We only have 4-5 hours to spend together since we both have kids to get home to (part of the reason for the hotel room). Obviously the sexual part is not the priority here. I thought about us first going to a bookstore and picking out a book of poems and reading them together...what do you think about that idea? Maybe I should have the book of poems all ready picked out? I don't know. Anyone with suggestions?

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posted: 10/23/07 at 1:19 AM

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Talk it over with your man. Are you sure that the sex is not the priority? I suspect you two may be on completely different pages on this one. You can play board games & dance in front of the kids; you can't (well at least you shouldn't) have sex in front of the kids.

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posted: 10/23/07 at 1:29 AM
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Well...sex may happen....not against that idea at all. But I wanted to set it all up for romance first. Where are all the romantics?

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posted: 10/23/07 at 8:36 AM

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I dont see how any of what u said is romantic. i am sorry, maybe thats just me,, but how is watching a scary movie romantic? or playing a board game? that might be CUTE.. u can do that any time.. but if u want some 'alone' time then u should be doing other things.

How about a bubble bath? a massage? slow dancing?
have flower peddles on the bed, candles everywhere, spray his favourite perfume in the room, wear a babydoll instead of pyjamas.

to me, thats romantic. but again, we are all different.

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posted: 10/23/07 at 12:15 PM

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quote:
Originally posted by NaUghtYbutNiCe
IHow about a bubble bath? a massage? slow dancing?
have flower peddles on the bed, candles everywhere, spray his favourite perfume in the room, wear a babydoll instead of pyjamas.

to me, thats romantic. but again, we are all different.



Right on!

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posted: 10/24/07 at 12:28 AM
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id start with a romantic meal somewhere, then go to the hotel room, where you can have a bath together, maybe explore each others bodies, be intermate with each other, then maybe if there is a balcony or windows or sommit, sit and watch the sunset and put music on and cuddle into each other.

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posted: 10/27/07 at 5:44 AM

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Hey Now! Nothing says romance like a nice game of Monopoly.

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maybe .. what about posted: 10/29/07 at 3:48 AM

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it depends on what you guys like....reading poetry to each other if you both like that could be a good idea. its important to remember what his likes and dislikes are as well. what is romantic to one couple may not be to the next. if u want to play a board game i would look at getting one of the couples games...that are meant for such occasions and could be a interesting way of getting to know each other better. arrange for room service to bring a favorite food or dinner or get it before hand yourself. MOST important thing is to go with the flow ... the night doesnt have to be perfect and the more relaxed you are the more fun you will both have.

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posted: 11/24/07 at 6:02 AM
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Go for a nice long walk after it gets dark.

Then order room service and get some wine.

Bring candles for the bathroom and take a shower together or separately in candlelight. After that, give each other massages, then watch your movie or read the poetry.

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posted: 01/30/08 at 1:31 AM

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My boyfriend surprised me with booking a hotel room (in a haunted hotel no less!) about a 2 hour drive from home for our 1 year anniversary, which is also on Valentine's Day this year. He got us the "romance package" which includes champagne, chocolates and massage oil, which to me me just oozes romance. We don't have kids, so it's not for me to say a scary movie and board games aren't the right thing to do...but I CAN suggest to you that no matter what you decide to do, you should definitely focus on EACH OTHER. No talk about bills, kids, job stress, etc. Take this opportunity to do something totally different and unexpected with, and for your man! A lot of women would be surprised what a brand new sexy little nighty will do! But also remember to not put so much pressure on yourself to make it romantic. Romance shouldn't be something you have to plan. Good luck!!!

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Re: Romantic Ideas to do in Hotel room posted: 01/30/08 at 5:19 PM

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Sorry, don't see board games or scary movies as something to schedule during this time. You can do that with the kids around and doesn't sound romantic.

It is winter so outside activitites are out so maybe a picnic dinner in the room? Spread a blanket on the floor, lingerie, candles, wine, chocolates, so on.

Give each other a massage. Music and slow dancing sound good. Unless the two of you have talked specifically about it, I am guessing sex will be high on your guys list. Most hotel room furnture centers around a bed and your not using it to sleep since you are only staying a few hours. Just a thought.

To be romantic for him, you have to think about what HE wants.

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posted: 02/06/08 at 10:49 PM

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Well you both could light some candles, and pull back the covers. Sit on the bed, and watch for BED BUGS. That should pass the time away!

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posted: 04/25/08 at 12:49 PM
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me and my wife spend a weekend a month at a nice hotel... a hot tub and a couple bottles of champagne. some naughty lingerie and costumes and our vivid imagination....... let the fun begin... it brings us both closer and its alotta fun

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posted: 04/28/08 at 8:19 PM

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Hi I totally agree with naughtybutnice wear a really nice babydoll, play some love songs, nice candlelight dinner, and make love for the 4-5 hours that you have...nothing is more romantic than that...girlfriend after a few minutes or so poetry is boring to a man unless it's erotic

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posted: 08/08/09 at 8:30 PM
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quote:
Originally posted by Honey1983
Hi I totally agree with naughtybutnice wear a really nice babydoll at one of the Palm Springs Hotels, play some love songs, nice candlelight dinner, and make love for the 4-5 hours that you have...nothing is more romantic than that...girlfriend after a few minutes or so poetry is boring to a man unless it's erotic




You got that right sister!
Keep that man of yours happy so that they don't go poking around elsewhere!

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posted: 08/13/09 at 7:32 PM

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quote:
Originally posted by Lady in IL
Well...sex may happen....not against that idea at all. But I wanted to set it all up for romance first. Where are all the romantics?


What you said makes it sound like sex and romance are two different things.

Aren't they both part of the same thing?

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posted: 08/17/09 at 12:23 AM

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if my boyf brought me away to play a boardgame i would just tie him to the bed and have my way with him! seriously... i wouldnt feel more offended... we have a room free to do whatever we please and he wants to play cluedo? unless it was something sexually orientated I would throw a fit... i would slag him forever more!

Get the massage oils, the champagne and strawberries, run him a bath and give him a glass of champagne while you get ready for him to come back into the room... be dressed up on the bed waiting to massage him and feed him his favourite fruit... then see what it leads to...

...of course then get dressed up and go for a nice meal...

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posted: 08/17/09 at 12:50 AM

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all in the room
I would start with a ****tail anything is good
get dress chick and order supper in the room with candlelight,
in advance I would be talking it over and tell him that he ll have to remove a piece of clothing everytime a ritual or ordinairy comment occur(ex. about the kids or something about work or the house)
bring some lingerie for later

If you want to play a board game get a sex game at least :

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