I have a problem that I really need some advice on and I don't know who to turn to for advice. My stepbrother and I have known each other for 14 years. When we met we were both teenagers and now of course we are two adults he is 5 years older than me but that is ok. The problem is we have not seen each other in 13 years and we recently talked to each other. During the time that we did see each other we lived under the same roof for 3 months. I have to be honest to say that we did have a little something going on but that was way back when before our parents were married. Our parents have been together for 15 years and have been married for 9. During the time that they have been married we never once lived under the same roof, we never even seen each other, we only talked on the phone here and there. What I'm asking is now being that our parents are married even if we wanted to what kind of relationship can we have he has already expressed to me that he would like to have a life with me and I guess I haven't said much about it because of the whole thing of our parents being married. We are both at the age where we are ready to settle down and I know if I should think about my happiness or starting drama in the family. I mean it is very confusing even though we are suppose to be step brother and sister we were never raised that way for the simple fact that we never lived together. When we first met when we were kids we were put together after only meeting each other 1 time. I do have feelings for him but I don't know what to do. Please if you can give me some advice. Thanks
I don't think you have to justify anything. You two are NOT related by any means...I can give this senario: I am with my b/f Andy..say his mom is single and my dad is single and we think they would make a grand pair..so we set them up, they hit it off and get married...that would not change anything for Andy and me...do you see what I mean? There is nothing to hide about your relationship...you are both grown adults...I say go for it! I am sure both your parents (step and bio) would be happy that each of you has found someone that treats you well and loves you...
Does your brother happen to be on this site? I swear this is a guy here who says he loves his stepsister, never lived with her, parents have only been married a few years, etc. I think I would go for it, even though technically you two are step bro and sis, you never lived together or anything to where you acted like bro and sis, but I would make sure you really think this will work cuz it might put strain on the family and if you guys had a bad break up it would be hard because its not like you guys can just stop seeing each other cuz you would always see each other at family functions and what not.
