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posted: 11/21/03 at 3:56 AM
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It was two months before my 18th birthday and he was 21. My parents had gone to bed and we began to explore each other out in the living room. When he got ready to go I went to my room to get his coat and he followed and we ended up having sex. It was my first time, unplanned, something I would never change and we were (still are) very much in love. Now instead of him being my boyfriend he's my husband  Couldn't ask for no better!
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 posted: 11/23/03 at 8:41 PM
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| My first time was with the boy I had a crush on threw elementry school. I don't consider it a mistake or anything. Cause it was well worth it. The only thing was after highschool I didn't really expect to see him again, but I ended up working with him. My husband wasn't too happy about that one. What's funny is, it really was just so innocent yet so "oh man I can't believe I did that" feeling. To this day looking back on it still makes me feel a little gitty. I admit there was a chance for us to happen. It just well, wasn't going to happen. But man, I'm sooooooooooo glad I did it.
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posted: 11/29/03 at 2:56 PM
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| We were both almost 14 (way way to young). He was my neighbour. We lived where there were a lot of older kids who were all talking about it so one afternoon we decided we'd give it a try. We were friends, he was cute but there was no romantic bond. It was very fast we just went through the motions and it hurt like hell. I cried for days afterwards. We continued to have sex off and on when we were bored for the next 2yrs. I regret I was so young and didnt wait until I had met someone I was emotionally involved with and I hate that I treated myself so badly but at the same time it taught me some very valuable lessons. The difference between making love and just having sex and how important love and respect are in a sexual relationship. Not only for your partner but for yourself also.
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 posted: 11/29/03 at 5:55 PM
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| K88e8...Hey, I was going to answer this but I didn't know if anyone would understand. I was gang raped my first time...I don't know too many (at all) people who understand how it felt, especially our first time, but if you ever want to talk, I'd love to...I know where you are coming from...
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posted: 11/30/03 at 3:25 PM
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i was 18, he was 25. he was drinking i don't think he was drunk. it just kinda happened. we were making out and he said how far do you want to go. i said i don't know and he took off his pants. we started but it hurt so he stopped.. then we did it and he got off. i was to scared. then while we were cuddling the toilet upstairs blew up and my uncle came running down in his undies to the furnace room to stop the water!!! and there we were both naked!!!!!!!
(ps we are still together that was 5 years ago.)
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posted: 11/30/03 at 3:56 PM
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Originally posted by strawberry85
i still consider myself a virgin. my technical "first" time was with this guy who didn't call or come to the airport to say good-bye to me when i left for college. i told him to stop because we didn't have a condom...i told him i didn't want to get pregnant...i had to repeat myself a few times because he kept saying "just a little more." he did stop. he was only inside for about 30 seconds...but he should have listened to me when i said 'no.' it happened so fast, i didn't know what was happening. jerk. now, when i go home for christmas, i have to deal with him. i don't want him to have any expectations of me. he hasn't even tried to get in contact with me. why should i pursue anything?
Honey...it sounds like he took advantage of you BIG TIME and I'm really tempted to use the word "RAPE". If you said "No" and he didn't listen, then there you go...My advice is not to be around him for Christmas and if it's something that you can't help...use EXTREME CAUTION. You don't want that to happen again do you?? Take care of yourself...And seriously...you might want to consider a little bit of counseling because you were taken advantage of and I'd hate for you to have problems because of it...By the way...The term "NO MEANS NO" wasn't invented for no reason...Just take good care of yourself... 
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