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Do women think about other men during sex posted: 08/06/03 at 8:27 AM

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Same question posed by another poster on the male forum for the men (i.e., do men think of other women during sex).

So, please let us men know. Do you? And why?

Most importantly, if not, what do you ladies think about during sex?

Thnx.

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posted: 08/06/03 at 9:41 AM
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Only if he's boring.

Seriously, I used to be one of those who would think about "boy, I wish he'd hurry up and get this over with". Why? Well, thats just too darned long to go into. But then, well, we all know how healthy I was

Four worst words a guy can hear during sex? "Are you done yet?"

Am now finding things to be very different and to be quite honest--the whole thing just mystifies me.

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posted: 08/06/03 at 11:41 AM

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Several months ago I was in a bad car accident and severely injured and seems like when tradgedy's occur that things fly into perspective. Almost having lost the oppourtunity to ever see muchless make love to my husband made me regret even the few times that I had jus opted to roll over and go to sleep. We make love everyday now cuz I never want our day to begin or end with a tradgedy and not have had that last moment of closeness between us. My soul feeds off of being close to him and him loving me so there is no possible way that I could ever imagine him being anyone else. I think it would take a ton of energy, no housework left to do at the end of the day, and a really bad relationship to be able to pretend that the person in your bed is someone else...and another thing I don't get about that is that...everyone's voice sounds different, everyone feels different, and everyone touches differently so I really don't see how you can pretend but I guess where there is a will there's a way.

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posted: 08/06/03 at 11:58 AM

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i have never thought about another man during sex. i rarely ever fantasize, anyway, choosing to look at porn instead. so, since im a visual person, im normally busy looking at us during sex as opposed to fantasizing about anyone or anything.

i do think about things though, but i cant really say i think about any one subject. it's not like im going through the motions and mentally ticking off my grocery list. i guess you could say im thinking a variety of things: 'that's hot', 'i love when he does that', 'ok almost there', 'oh i know he likes it when i do this', 'i wonder if i should try that', 'concentrate, almost there', etc. im mostly just focusing on myself, him, and the act at the moment.

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Smile posted: 08/06/03 at 12:49 PM

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Well, I am currently not in a relationship, although I'm somewhat seeing someone. We haven't had sex (yet), although I see that as happening one day...(hopefully), that is if we end up getting serious about each other. We've discussed the fact that we both like each other & that we are both curious about having sex w/one another, but I have felt it's been too soon for that so far.

Since I haven't had sex w/him yet, I'd have to answer this question a bit differently. When we are intimate (kissing, holding each other, hugging, etc), he is all I think about. I couldn't think of being w/ or having sex w/anyone else besides him. He has 110% of my attention. I am so intrigued by him...not only physically/sexually, but also emotionally. Because of this interest/intrigue, I am fully focused on him & only him.

Before I met him, I only had a few (sex) partners. A few of my exes & I fooled around, but I never felt "right" being w/them. At times, yes, my mind would wander off & I'd think about other guys....(not always, but sometimes). I think it was the fact that I was never meant to be w/any of the men in my past or I wouldn't have been thinking of other men. Now that I am seeing my current man, he is all that I want. I am hoping we can get more serious one day because I think we would be good together. But only time will tell where that will lead...

I hope that answers your question.

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posted: 08/06/03 at 1:31 PM
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If I'm in-love with a man and its early in the relationship (ie about 5 years or less), my mind never wanders from the one I love. If I'm not in-love with a man I'm dating.....my mind flickers a lot to the one I loved but couldnt keep.

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posted: 08/06/03 at 1:50 PM

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I can't say I think much of anything except focusing on my pleasure and my boyfriend's.

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posted: 08/06/03 at 1:56 PM

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The only time I thought about another person while having sex was when I was with my ex....I would fantasize that he was really a guy named Aaron. Guess who I've been dating for the last year and 8 months.....you betcha, my fantasy boy.

And now, I never think about anyone else....the only things I think of during sex are "That feels good" "That feels REALLY good", "He's the hottest thing I've ever seen", "Oh-my-God-yes", and variations

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posted: 08/06/03 at 5:49 PM

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I've only been with one sexual partner and I have never thought of any other man during sex. All I could think about was that it felt good and what I'd like to do to him next... That's about it...

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posted: 08/07/03 at 6:16 PM

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No, I don't think about other guys during sex. I'm too busy admiring how sexy my husband looks, talking dirty, and enjoying all of the wonderful sensations .

Regina

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