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You first... posted: 08/09/12 at 6:56 AM

Egnima76  [more]
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Riddle me this...
I have heard time and time again, especially with regards to committed relationships that men, like women to be initiators sometimes.
Considering that men think about sex more often than women, why do I hear complaints about it not happening often enough? Especially, if they are still having sex after they get the ball rolling?

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posted: 08/10/12 at 3:43 AM

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A man needs to feel desired by his woman. If you don't show your desire, he will find someone who does.


A woman needs to feel loved by her man. If you don't show your love, she will find someone who does.

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posted: 08/10/12 at 3:13 PM

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But isn't there also desire in the "having" of sex regardless of who started it? If there were no desire, there would be no sex...

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posted: 08/11/12 at 3:19 AM

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We guys always want sex. That's implied already.

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posted: 08/11/12 at 7:04 AM
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I think I want my lady start fire after 25%

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posted: 09/07/12 at 8:45 AM
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I love it when my lady initiates sex. Can't go wrong there!

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posted: 09/08/12 at 3:02 PM

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Agree and agreed... I do understand that, what I don't understand is the complaining or score keeping...
Your 3 to 1? Well, since Men think about sex more, kinda makes sense...
Not to mention, I had a male friend who tried "an experiment" where he climbed in bed with his wife and refused to make the first move.... they actually went a month....leaving him very disgruntled.
Why put yourselves through all that?
I get it sucks ALWAYS asking or FEELING like you ask all the time, but why keep track?

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