i have been sleeping with the same guy on and off for a year and a few months now.
we have had anal lots of times and its clean and fine.
i am embarrassed because last time i put spray tan on my legs and it got on the bed with some blood.
he laughed it off and we washed the sheets together.
i just feel embarrassed like what if he doesn't want to have sex with me again??
or should i not worry about it? we were supposed to have sex the next day but he really did get busy because i was visiting. i guess if he was grossed out he would ignore med
maybe i shouldn't worry about it??? i just feel mortified.
also makeup smears on your eyes if you tear from deep-throating and i know some got on the sheets by the pillow. i was wondering how a smear was there.
i am sure it was probably the suntan and not something gross but i don't know. i know i saw some blood.
If he's halfway mature, he won't be repulsed by some blood. Accidents happen, there's no need for a drama. Him laughing it off is a good sign, just forget about it.
There shouldn't be blood from anal sex. Are you using plenty of lube? Google "anal fissure"- its what you can get if you aren't careful when having anal sex.
As for your embarrassment, I wouldn't worry overly. Guys know sex is messy, and really...the messier the better! LOL. .
If it makes you feel better, I got my period and ruined my bf's white Egyptian cotton sheets. It was like a bloodbath! He sighed and forgave me, because come on...that kind of thing happens.
But he still teases me about it, it became a joke between us.
Forgiveness is easy when you love someone.
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Poor is the man whose pleasures depend on the permission of another