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introducing a new thing posted: 08/03/12 at 3:43 PM
BrownThing86  [more]
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how would you go about incorporating a vibrator for her into the mix. I was with a girl recently who asked if id mind her using one, and i said no. As a result she had 4-5 orgasms and was crazy afterward for me. Now when i'm with others, i have a feeling that they simply arent getting near as much pleasure. Them being pleased comes before me feeling like "a man" and being bummed that they want to use something. So, given that i want my gf to have great orgasms, what would you ladies recommend saying? my gf doesnt even know exactly how to masterbate alone (or so she says), so how do i suggest to her using a toy with me in bed?

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posted: 08/03/12 at 11:39 PM

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I'm confused - here you talk about your girlfriend, in another post you ask if you should go and surprise your ex one weekend? What's that all about?

As for your question here, talk to her. Ask her how she would feel about purchasing a toy for the two of you to use. It's worth noting that not all women like vibrators, the sensations are too strong for some. And others are just not interested in using toys. Best thing to do is just bring it up casually, 'I thought maybe this would be exciting... what do you think?'

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posted: 08/04/12 at 12:30 AM
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hehe good advice. As for your question, I ask some of these questions as mock questions in order to answer questions i actually harbor. I notice that most people respond more appropriately (in regards to what I am interested in hearing) if they believe it to be my current situation. The truth is I am single at the moment and dating around. The information, with the exception of the gf (which i dont have at the moment) is all real in the sense that I have been in or have thought about being in these situations.

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