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What to do posted: 07/30/12 at 8:24 PM
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| so my ex from 5 years ago wants to play a nude picture trading game with me but claims that part of the rules is we will not have sex. Question 1. Is he just saying that or does he really want sex but doesn't want to come out and say it? *He is currently trying to work things out with his wife (but has told me he doesn't know if this is good because "they might be putting off the inevitable.") I agreed to his game, not sure why, but during it he asked what I remembered about our relationship. I told him the sex (we had a lot of it). Of course I asked him the same question and his response back was "not as much as I would like but I do remember talking to you about random things and after it was over drinking a lot" Question 2. Not really sure how to take this statement at all (He left me then I found out I was prego he was back and then vanished again.) Also in the middle of this game he said that "he couldn't believe I would do this with him" Question 3. Should I be offended by that? I asked him at the end of the game why he wasn't doing this with his wife and he said it was because he likes doing it with someone hes not having sex with, it's more fun that way. Also to go along with this even though he talks to me about what's going on with his wife he still contacts me everyday seeing how am I am. (Even before this whole game thing) So bottom line I don't know how to take this type of relationship, and I guess deep down I kinda want him back. Please help with your point of view
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posted: 07/31/12 at 9:27 PM
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What is it that you want to hear?
Do you believe him when he says it won't lead to sex? It doesn't really matter because you want it to lead to sex.
In most of these cases the man never leaves his wife. He just wants to play around. You my dear are a willing party.
Yes you should be offended. Not only at his behavior for wanting to cheat on his wife, but at yourself for offering yourself up so easily to a married man.
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