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He is Curious?! posted: 07/28/12 at 3:55 AM
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Been talking to this guy online who on my previous post I said he is out of a relationship the same time as me. A couple of days ago he said hope he's not being pushy but how about meeting and/or talking on the phone. I agreed to meet him and we are going to next week. What caught my attention is he did mention he's very curious to meet me. The last time I heard this was my ex, who said he was very curious in getting to know me. This to me translates into the guy doesn't want a relationship but just casual dating. I'm not about wanting to deal with mind games that leads to dead end relationships.
I'm not keen to do casual dating, not the type for it so what are some tell tale signs? How would you interpret this?
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posted: 07/28/12 at 4:03 AM
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| Well fact of the matter is this guy hasn't said anything else aside that he's curious and I'm interessting. At the same time he hasn't asked me anything about my romantic life when we were talking about his. So I just wonder if this is some kind of "shoot the breeze" kind of thing instead of having the means to seek something meaninful. Again, I'm just wondering if I got another emotional unavailable man. Frankly, I'm just tired dealing with the type.
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posted: 07/28/12 at 4:05 AM
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I wouldnt read too much when he use the word "curious". Dont let same words 'confused' your mind, it is too soon to judge ANYTHING at this point, just go ahead to meet him and see how it goes.
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posted: 07/28/12 at 4:20 AM
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Stop carrying excuss baggage from past relationships into potential new ones.
You're comparing any guy that comes along to an ex.
Instead of guessing and wondering...ask him why he's curious to meet you.
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posted: 07/28/12 at 4:38 AM
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I know this is crazy... but how about meeting him first before making some truly big assumptions?
You're going down the same destructive path again. You're wanting a relationship or, at the very least, some sort of sign of commitment before actually just seeing if you mesh well with the person. DATING IS SUPPOSED TO BE FUN! THE FIRST FEW TIMES OF MEETING SOMEONE AND GETTING TO KNOW THEM AS A PERSON IS FUN!
Dating you is like the Nuremberg Trials.
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posted: 07/28/12 at 5:09 AM
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[[I know this is crazy... but how about meeting him first before making some truly big assumptions?]]
Precisely!! Don't worry about his word cchoice or meaning therof when you haven't even MET the ppor guy yet! I can see he's already walking into your minefield of analayzing EVERY movement or word he makes!
Relax!...
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posted: 07/28/12 at 5:37 AM
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Every part of dating in the beginning is "casual" dating for at least a few dates. If you CLICK, he will get more serious. If you dont click, then you wont get serious. THERE ARE NO GUARANTEEDS IN LIFE. So get use to it.
I would seriously hate to be you, you just seem to dislike everything about everybody you meet. You will never be pretty enough for a guy to accept the amount of judgement/expectations you toss onto him. I know your line of thinking is highly unreasonable. STOP while you are ahead or just don't date. I really think you shouldn't date right now....
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