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Guys who enjoy being penetrated/bum play = demasculinized? posted: 07/21/12 at 2:15 AM

harvie  [more]
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I am just wondering how a woman would take to finding out that their significant other enjoys occasionally being penetrated. As in he does it himself while masterbating from time to time.

Thanks again

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posted: 07/21/12 at 2:38 AM

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Well, I hate gender roles and stereotypes. As such I hate stereotypical "man's man" macho guys. I've never understood women who do, to be honest. I like guys who see themselves as an equal to me.

Thus, it's not emasculating for a guy to enjoy anal penetration. It would seem prudish to me if a guy denied himself that pleasure only due to his squeamishness about being seen as "feminine" or "gay".

If a guy thinks being like a girl is degrading, what must they think of real girls???

That said, I thoroughly enjoy pegging my bf. He says I'm very good at it, LOL.

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posted: 07/21/12 at 10:43 AM

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No issue. My boyfriend enjoys being penetrated with a finger or toys, stimulating his prostate gives him a lot of pleasure. He's not 'gay', he's not 'less of a man', he's not 'feminine'. He's simply relaxed and open-minded enough to enjoy the pleasures that part of the body can produce.

And since you ask, he's the first partner I've had who has let me play with him anally and I love it.

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posted: 07/21/12 at 11:46 AM
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It depends on how prudish the women is and her attitude towards sex. Look at a prostate massager online with her and tell her you are interested in trying that with her after reading about the incredible orgasms it offers men.

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posted: 07/22/12 at 10:53 PM

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A lot of guys like this, they just won't admit it.

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posted: 07/23/12 at 4:00 AM
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uhhh , I will!

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posted: 07/23/12 at 10:49 AM

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I know my hubby doesn't like anything sticking into his a$$,lol..and I'm not too interested pegging on him honestly..but my ex-bf just love it.

Though I do enjoy some anal play occasionally but I'm generally not a big fan in that dept and I prefer receiving.

I'm sure it could be really fun for the couple but I guess its just not our thing.

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posted: 07/25/12 at 3:50 PM
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I have to admit. I wouldn't mind a girl trying that on me. It'd certainly be something new.

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posted: 07/25/12 at 8:00 PM
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make it happen!! You wont be disappointed

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posted: 08/18/12 at 12:22 AM

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I agree with the majority of the ladies. Most guys are afraid of seeming 'gay' or emasculated but sometiems it's the "embarrassment and humiliation" of a situation that makes it more intimate. The guy gets to let go of his sexual inhibitions with the woman he cares for and get to enjoy stronger orgasms as a result.
If you haven't tired it do so ! Start with small items to stretch gradually and it works well.
Have fun with it and explore often!
Jackie

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