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What makes someone good or bad? posted: 07/13/12 at 8:07 AM
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| Lets spice things up alittle, this forum use to be fun! What makes a man or woman ” good” in bed? What is your biggest turn on? How do you like things done? What was the best sex you ever had and why? Of the sex doesn't live up to your expectations would it be a deal breaker for you? Pon a scale of.1-10 how important is sex to you?
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Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being "in love" which any of us can convince ourselves we are.
Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident. Your mother and I had it, we had roots that grew towards each other underground, and when all the pretty blossom had fallen from our branches we found that we were one tree and not two.
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posted: 07/13/12 at 8:01 PM
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| I'd say what makes a partner good in bed is one who is an active and unashamed participant in sexual activity, in touch with their own orgasms, and finding pleasure in generously giving them to the other person.
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"My mother used to tell me, 'In this world, you must be oh so smart or oh so pleasant.' Well, for years I was smart. I recommend pleasant." Ellwood P. Dowd in HARVEY
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posted: 07/15/12 at 9:52 PM
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I think what makes a women good is active participation...
Biggest turn on, that's tough, but lately I would say if my wife is riding me, but then finishes me off orally...diggin that.
What I like done..tough question...changes so often, but 69 seems to be on our menu a lot lately and I love the the way she mixes up using her hands and mouth.
Best sex ever...really tough, but one time I was working for a carpet company and during work hours this girl gave me a bj in the isle...so could have got caught. We had been flirting so long, and then next thing ya know...I think I O'd in two seconds.
1-10 I would say 10. I love sex...period. When I'm not having it it bumbs me out, and when I am having it and happy as a clam...whats not to love?
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posted: 07/27/12 at 4:07 PM
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Well for me personally attraction is a MUST. I can be wild as ever with a man Im totally attracted to or only semi into it with someone I dont necessarily crave.
What makes a man good is one that is confident, out to please me and not only himself, passionate, adventurous, and able to get it up after the first time (if it was a quickie).
I have had a 32 year old not know how to give oral sex. Its a turn off. Luckily I did come but I dont want to coach a grown man on how to eat the cupcake.
Biggest turn on would be someone who can turn me out.. Im pretty freaky so he shouldnt be conservative. Sex is maybe a 8-9 for me. Sex would be a deal breaker if that person isnt willing to learn to please me.
The best sex I had was outdoors on my porch. I'm an exhibitionist and I brought my partner outside unzip his pants and almost sucked him into ecstasy. But before I did I rode him while cars rode by and people being outside. It was dark but definitely a turn on.
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posted: 07/28/12 at 6:16 PM
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| Im surprised you said "I dont want to coach a grown man on how to eat the cupcake." That would make you "bad" in my book though you may be awesome. Women like some extremely varied techniques when it comes to oral and one oral-101 class is not gonna cover all women. If you are unwilling to communicate what YOU like then I don't see how you can expect anyone to just do it the way you like. Communication is the key to being a great lover. You have to be willing to guide and willing to listen to your partner......IMHO.
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posted: 08/02/12 at 10:07 PM
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I wouldnt want to teach a man (I would prefer if he already knew what to do). If he was a potential long term mate, I would have no choice; especially if I wanted to pleasure.
But yes, I had to tell this gentlemen in particular that it takes more than 3-4 minutes of licking to get me off, I felt like his whole face was in me, I had to communicate that only my clit needed licking, also my legs doesnt have to be in some weird position (this to me is not freaky-- just a position), I had to explain to him what position I liked best when receiving oral (he wanted to do what HE thought was best).
So far, he is getting better..
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