Thats because he doesn't love her, he just needs her. She is a crutch in this situation, he still is in love with his ex-wife even if he hates her. Intense hate is only the result of a broken heart, when one can accept shit happens and goes on doing more positive things is when they are free to love again.
A good lesson...never fall in love with some one that has as many issues as you do to overcome. Coming from a 6 year abusive relationship, you have a lot to overcome before you should allow yourself to make practical choices about the men you date. You will find that it makes a big difference because you wont be hooking up with these clowns out of desperation and security anymore.
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When I am at work, its like I am Iron Man...I feel invincible when I don the armor of success....
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