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G-Spot/Squirting/Best kind of Orgasm??? HELP! posted: 06/23/12 at 4:42 PM
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I will explain my premise, then pose questions, and request a certain type of respondent... so please respect that if you fall into the uninformed group. I want to hear (as we all do) from people who know about this issue.

Sooo...

I watch porn - we all do. And in the course my watching pornography, I noticed that some women "squirt". It is supposedly an event that occurs when the woman experiences a "g-spot orgasm". It is also said that any woman can experience this given the proper stimulation. Since I was 18 I attempted to please my girlfriends by locating their g-spot and massaging it in a manner that I learned of from online tutorials where they show the act occuring from start to finish, including anatomy lessons, etc. (OMFG i know how nerdy I am but I promise I simply want to avoid unnecessary response info).

Anyhow, usually I have trouble even inserting more than one finger, as it is usually the case that the giver uses their two middle fingers in an up/down pressuring motion to stimulate the skenes gland and... yada yada, again, I know the technical info, I don't want the usual stuff. Anyway, I want to know a number of things from women who have experience.

1. Is it pleasurable to squirt, or is it an uncontrollable consequence.

2. Do you squirt from penile penetration or fingers

3. Do you even squirt? Have you tried? Have you involuntarily? etc.

4. Does it hurt?

5. Do you dislike it, or is it hot?

6. How the HECK do I find the gspot in an inconspicuous manner, because usually the chick seems like, "why are you pressing the upper wall of my vagina"?

7. Assuming it is 100% accurate, and you all can squirt, and it is when you experience a gspot orgasm, do you prefer this to any other orgasm type, ie. clitoral? I have heard that it is a "full body" orgasm, true/false?

Again, no "well, the gspot is a... located approximately...and she should urinate before... yada yada yada"
I have heard all of that information. I want direct human advice from NON-pornstar women about how it is achieved properly, and if it is even as worthwhile and enjoyable as it seems.

Rest assured my intent is to give my lover the most intense and mind blowing pleasure of her life, that she didnt even expect. I want to have no doubt that she came, feel her squirt (which makes me crazy aroused as well) and get that satisfaction for myself and for the woman I love.

Thank you.

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posted: 06/23/12 at 7:58 PM

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First off, you need to know that not every woman can do this. Those videos claiming they can teach you what to do, and make your lady go crazy? They are exaggerating. Just like not all women can come only though penetration, not all women can even find their Gspot, let alone be able to orgasm or squirt.

That said, I have felt certain pressure in that area that can make me squirt, but it has only happened once or twice in my 25 years of having sex.

1. Is it pleasurable to squirt, or is it an uncontrollable consequence.

For me, it's just....meh. I get better orgasms from stimulating my clit. In fact, rubbing my Gspot is somewhat uncomfortable. All I feel is pressure, and it sorta makes me feel like I have to pee.

2. Do you squirt from penile penetration or fingers

It was penetration, never from fingers.

3. Do you even squirt? Have you tried? Have you involuntarily? etc.

Like I said, it happened a couple of times. Once with a guy who was actively trying, and twice just by change. The guy's penis was just the right angle, or something. I don't know, because it hasn't happened since, and I have ahem....had rather a lot of sexual partners.

4. Does it hurt?

Uncomfortable, and I don't particularly like it. It might possibly feel painful for some women, though. Do not forget- every woman's body is different, and anyone who tells you there is a "formula" to make a girl come is full of shit.

5. Do you dislike it, or is it hot?

Meh. I'll do it if my partner wants to do it. It's not a turn on though.

6. How the HECK do I find the gspot in an inconspicuous manner, because usually the chick seems like, "why are you pressing the upper wall of my vagina"?

Dude, COMMUNICATE with her. You should NOT do shit to a girl without DISCUSSING it first. Some women can get sore or hurt easily, and you could also trip someone's trigger with some kinds of play.

If you are close enough to this girl to be having sex with her, then you are close enough to her to discuss the kind of sex she likes, you like, and figure out where the overlap is. Don't just pull tricks out of your bag and spring them on her.

7. Assuming it is 100% accurate, and you all can squirt, and it is when you experience a gspot orgasm, do you prefer this to any other org1. Is it pleasurable to squirt, or is it an uncontrollable consequence.

It is not in any way 100 percent accurate. Some women will like it and some won't- again this is where COMMUNICATION comes in.

Don't let your inability to make a girl squirt make you feel like a failure as a man, or anything silly like that. Recognize that all women are different, and you have to work on orgasms TOGETHER. It's not something you "give" her; it's something you help her achieve on her own.

Above all, have FUN experimenting! Don't be too worried or put a lot of pressure on yourself or on her- it's supposed to be fun.

Good luck!

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posted: 06/23/12 at 8:03 PM

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The G-spot is a myth for women incapable of having clitoris orgasms. Gives them hope that there is something else to look for. Following a British study in 2009 it was concluded its existence is unproven.

The female has a gland that would equal to the male prostate, Skene's gland. The squirting may come from that gland when being rubbed but there is no sexual enjoyment coming from that grand.

I find it SO annoying when I have a new partner and he thinks he's a specialist at finding the G spot and he can make women squirt, etc. as if that made him the king of the hill. It's more for his own ego than anything else.

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posted: 06/23/12 at 11:19 PM

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As has already been said, not all women are able to squirt, just like most women aren't able to orgasm from penetration alone. By all means, give it a try - but it's important not to put pressure on her or to feel bad if it doesn't happen. I hate the myths that 'all women' can do XYZ, because that's when people start to put pressure on themselves.


1. Is it pleasurable to squirt, or is it an uncontrollable consequence.

To be honest, when it has happened in the past I haven't noticed it. I had a pretty intense, but still fairly standard orgasm, and was then informed by my lover that I squirted. So I wouldn't say that it was more pleasurable, no, but it did excite my lover a bit.


2. Do you squirt from penile penetration or fingers

First time was when he was trying to fist me, so he had about 4 fingers inside me and obviously pressed just on the right spot. Second time was during sex, I was on top and leaned forwards slightly.


3. Do you even squirt? Have you tried? Have you involuntarily? etc.

Yes, it's happened twice, both times were completely random. We can't recreate exactly what did it, it just happens for me randomly.


4. Does it hurt?

No. Like I said, I didn't feel anything different. Had a pretty strong orgasm like usual, except those two times quite a lot of fluid gushed out.


5. Do you dislike it, or is it hot?

I'm pretty neutral about it. An orgasm is an orgasm as far as I'm concerned.


6. How the HECK do I find the gspot in an inconspicuous manner, because usually the chick seems like, "why are you pressing the upper wall of my vagina"?

You can't. Not every woman has a g-spot, not every woman is going to want it stimulated, and I'm guessing that for women who do have it, it's not going to be in exactly the same place. Talk to her about it. Communication is the key.


7. Assuming it is 100% accurate, and you all can squirt, and it is when you experience a gspot orgasm, do you prefer this to any other orgasm type, ie. clitoral? I have heard that it is a "full body" orgasm, true/false?

First of all, it's not 100% accurate, not even close.

As someone who experiences orgasms druing penetration, with no direct stimulation, I'm inclined to believe that the "full body orgasm" thing is typically a myth. I've had awesome orgasms from having sex, and awesome orgams from just having my clit stimulated. There isn't a better or 'superior' type of orgasm.

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posted: 06/24/12 at 12:16 AM

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gail65 not sure if I concur. First, my wife tells me her G orgasm is wayy more intense and has even squirted a few time during it...so what am I to tell her..."thats a myth, what just happened never really happened cause some guys in lab coats said so?" Not trying to be combative, but rarely do I put a lot in to what scientist say...until sexual study (can't remember the name...starts with a K) came along womens bodies were a complete mystery.

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posted: 06/24/12 at 12:41 AM

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I love g-spot stimulation - but I can't cum from that alone. I always need clitoral stimulation as well. But I still squirt! So squirting is not synonymous with a g-spot orgasm.

1. Is it pleasurable to squirt, or is it an uncontrollable consequence.
It is somewhat. Ish. It feel more like relief than anything.

2. Do you squirt from penile penetration or fingers
As long as I'm also rubbing my clit, it can be both.

3. Do you even squirt? Have you tried? Have you involuntarily? etc.
I never used to squirt until I thought myself how to. Now I can. Sounds silly, but there it is.

4. Does it hurt?
No.

5. Do you dislike it, or is it hot?
It's annoying, since it makes the whole process a lot messier, haha.

6. How the HECK do I find the gspot in an inconspicuous manner, because usually the chick seems like, "why are you pressing the upper wall of my vagina"?
Like other people have said, communicate with your partner and figure out what she wants. There's no blanket answer.

7. Assuming it is 100% accurate, and you all can squirt, and it is when you experience a gspot orgasm, do you prefer this to any other orgasm type, ie. clitoral? I have heard that it is a "full body" orgasm, true/false?
I wouldn't know

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posted: 06/24/12 at 12:47 AM

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easymoney: I was being sarcastic a little Some women will say they have a G spot and will squirt and enjoy it. Many many many women don't. If the G spot is where everyone says it is then I do not enjoy it, makes me want to pee.

Just like some people like to be touched in certain places and others don't. That G spot is not for everyone. I don't think there is some kind of mind-blowing orgasm hidden in there for everyone.

BrownThing: Porn is really not the place for you to get sex references. If it were then I should expect every man I meet to have a huge penis that can go non stop for 2 hours, right.

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posted: 06/24/12 at 2:14 AM

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Believe it or not it's up to you but i have climax through g-spot stimulation and penetration alone but it only happened afew times. While some women claimed that they can climax over 10x in a session, i personally find it hard to believe but it could be possible. Study have shown that very small percentage of women can climax through g-sport stimulation or penetration alone and since i have experienced it myself therefore i DO NOT believe it is myth.However, the topic of female g-spot orgasm is still debating.


1. Is it pleasurable to squirt, or is it an uncontrollable consequence.

- It is a mixture of both, the feeling is much stronger,wetter than regular orgasms.

2. Do you squirt from penile penetration or fingers

- Yes for both but not always.

3. Do you even squirt? Have you tried? Have you involuntarily? etc.

- Yes, but it does not happen in every session. I love to explore my body and i understand how my body works.

4. Does it hurt?

- Not really but sometime i feel alittle 'sore' and a feeling of numbness.

5. Do you dislike it, or is it hot?

- Depends. I like it when im in the right mood.

6. How the HECK do I find the gspot in an inconspicuous manner, because usually the chick seems like, "why are you pressing the upper wall of my vagina"?

- You have to be patient, communicate and take it slow, your partner need to feel comfortable to relax her body and willing to let you stimulate her g-spot.

7. Assuming it is 100% accurate, and you all can squirt, and it is when you experience a gspot orgasm, do you prefer this to any other orgasm type, ie. clitoral? I have heard that it is a "full body" orgasm, true/false?

- Generally, any orgasm feels good to me, the only difference i felt from g-spot orgasm is that they tend to be very intense, the whole body contracts, it makes you 'black-out' and the good feeling last longer compared to clit orgasms,etc..

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posted: 06/24/12 at 3:26 AM

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quote:
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- Generally, any orgasm feels good to me, the only difference i felt from g-spot orgasm is that they tend to be very intense, the whole body contracts, it makes you 'black-out' and the good feeling last longer compared to clit orgasms,etc..
See, I don't like the G spot but my orgasms from clitoris are comparable to a seizure. My body goes into spasms and my brain disconnect.

Each woman is different. What is a myth is to think that every woman has a g-spot that is where her real pleasure is.

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posted: 06/24/12 at 3:49 AM

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my bad gail...sorry bout that.

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