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Need Opinions!! posted: 05/27/12 at 4:20 PM
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First, last night my while my boyfriend and I were getting it on, he had a condom on, eventually he took out and I was aloof then he said he was getting a new one after some time not having one, I freaked out. I'm so worried pre-mature ejculation. Should I be worried?
Second, a month ago his roommate, his girlfriend, me and him went costume shopping for a party. Well, they didn't have any changing rooms but a wall was making it easier for us. Then I see his roommate's girlfriend in bra and panties walking around, my boyfriend got a bit embarrassed and turned around. I've noticed that at his apartment he just doesn't mind walking down the hall
with just a towel on in the at night and sometimes she sleeps over there. Do you find that a bit weird, like they seem a bit open to be half naked around each other...however, I can't imagen walking around like that infront of his roommate or any of his friends though.
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posted: 05/27/12 at 4:54 PM
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YOU, Miss, should be on a contraceptive! pick one! the pill, the patch, the IUD, diaphragm, name it! You are too smart, c'mon!
A man with a towel around his waist walking down the hall, no big deal. You see more skin at the beach.
If he turned around when he saw her in her bra and panties, in my opinion, it's because he is not used to that sight and he turned around as an automatism. If he was used to that sight he would not have reacted. Would be familiar to him.
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posted: 05/27/12 at 6:39 PM
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If you are not taking some form of birth control, you'll either live in fear of getting pregnant, or you'll get pregnant. I too don't like the idea of artificial hormones - I'm a mother of two  I was surprised by my first pregnancy, it changed my life. I was married, but I was only 23.
You're too much of a worrier to not be on BC. Although, there are many studies that show that there is not always a huge amount of sperm in pre-cum. Look up pre-cum on wikipedia.
If you're that worried, can you get a morning after pill? It's good for up to 72 hours after unprotected sex.
And, no, I don't think it's weird for a man to walk down the hall in a towel in his own home. Naked while there was company over? Yes. But, what's the difference between a towel and a pair of shorts? He's not sitting on the couch for hours, hanging out with her half naked. I wouldn't think anything of that.
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posted: 05/27/12 at 7:51 PM
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I agree with Silk and Gail about the birth control, you really should decide on one soon. If it helps at all, I can reccommend the copper IUD. No hormones, effective immediately in almost all cases, good for five years or even ten if you choose. The only downside is that it can make periods heavier and more painful but I handled it just fine.
No, the towel thing is nothing out of the ordinary, as the others have said. I'd not give it another thought
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posted: 05/27/12 at 7:54 PM
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| If I may suggest a contraceptive. Because you never had children I would not recommend an IUD. There is always a chance of injuring the uterus and render you infertile. Go with the patch or the pill. The dosage is minimal. Some BC pills are even effective against cervical cancer. It's not all negative.
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