I am excited to find this forum! A place to talk about my fave topic! Hubby and I average twice a night and every morning.....friends think we are crazy but we can't get enough. 20 plus years of marriage and we just discovered sex toys and bought our first "sex ramp" which has proven to be hours of fun!
Honestly??? Prayer! We starting praying together about it and working on putting each other first! No more TV in bedroom and no more late nights on FB. Once we did that we saw a huge difference! And we are sleeping great!!!
Honestly??? Prayer! We starting praying together about it and working on putting each other first! No more TV in bedroom and no more late nights on FB. Once we did that we saw a huge difference! And we are sleeping great!!!
Wendy, tell us you're not trolling with your first messages, preaching a gospel of increased sex via prayer. Twice a night and once in the morning after 20 years of marriage? By turning off TV and FB and praying about it? Most 40-ish folks I know wouldn't have the stamina for that.
More details, please.
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"My mother used to tell me, 'In this world, you must be oh so smart or oh so pleasant.' Well, for years I was smart. I recommend pleasant." Ellwood P. Dowd in HARVEY
Rest assured I am not trolling. I responded to a question honestly. There are people who pray and I just happen to be one of them. Cablebandit I am sorry if that offended you in some way.
I took my marriage for granted for a long time and took my husband for granted and so did he. We found what works for us. To each their own :-)
The way I understand it is that this 3 times a day sex life hasn't been happening for 20 years. Maybe I'm way off, but it sounds like this is a new found (maybe in the last few years even) excitement for one another.
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Love is not an emotion, it's a decision.