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posted: 06/02/12 at 2:58 PM

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Originally posted by MarioComp
You cant just go to bed with someone you met yesterday.


Well, actually, yes you can- some people are into that. That's why swinger clubs exist!

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posted: 06/06/12 at 11:22 PM

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My wife and I have discussed it, I was the one that raised the subject though. I would have been OK if she bought it up, though that doesn't mean it would have to happen.

In our discussions she said she wouldn't want the two man type, she had an ex BF that asked her about that and she didn't like the idea at all.

I've never found the appeal of two guys and a girl so it works out that we both agree that if it ever did happen it would be a FFM.

I wouldn't need any boundaries but would be willing to respect hers if she needed them to make her comfortable with it.

She has made out with two girls, I was there for both and joined in with the second one. I did only after my wife said it was OK. I think I posted a story about it here a while back

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posted: 07/05/12 at 7:39 PM

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rthmlh, please post your age in your profile. One must be 18 or over to post in the Pillow Talk forums. Thanks.

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posted: 07/07/12 at 4:24 AM

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I doubt my husband would ever suggest this, but if he did I'd feel hurt, and I wouldn't do it.

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posted: 07/10/12 at 5:51 PM

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The man I am seeing (Will) had been mentionning this once in a while (for another woman to join us).

I never said yes, I never said no. I keep saying I'll think about it.

You know what they say! a man cannot live without hope. lol
I wonder how long I can keep that up!

I am not closed to the idea but realistically with my condition we would never find someone.

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posted: 07/10/12 at 7:12 PM

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Not for us, I love my husband too much to share, and I think since we are TTC I'd be a bit sensitive about another person being around.

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posted: 07/23/12 at 11:29 PM

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My husband and I have recently visited a few lap-dancing clubs together. I've really enjoyed it as a fantasy and role-play experience and watching him receive a lap-dance didn't bother me at all. It's a trust vs. temptation thrill.

Would I want to take a girl home with us?? - No. I've toyed around with threesomes in the past and they were messy affairs.

My husband knows my views on the matter so won't ask and he's not into men so I know not to bring up a MMF scenario even if I wanted one.

If he wants to explore MFF scenarios, there's porn and strip-clubs and of course - our imagination.

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posted: 07/28/12 at 8:15 PM
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My wife and I added a girl after a year or so of fantasy talk about it. It was a one time thing and we both had a good time with it. Couple of years later we went for a foursome and we decided we were done with it. Had a good time but it was honestly a bucket list type of thing. We won't spend years wondering what if. It isn't for everybody, it isn't for us, but we did enjoy it and there was no jealousy. Can't swear it will never happen again, just not in pursuit of it.

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Thee Way posted: 08/18/12 at 4:26 AM

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If my wife suggested another woman to join us I would be willing. It would be hot, but I know she would never suggest. Not interested in a MMF with her either, nor would she be. Had a couple FFM threesomes back in my single days and they were very hot, erotic, sexy and memorable.

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