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Are You Interested? posted: 04/24/12 at 9:51 PM
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| Anyone ever heard of that site. It's like a personals app on facebook where you can click yes on people's pictures if you are interested or not. My boyfriend is on there and has been on there since like a year before we got together. But what bothers me is that he is still on it. He gets notifications every day from people who click yes on him or send a message. And he sometimes clicks yes on them back or just clicks yes on other women in general. He hasn't sent any a message since we been dating but he has clicked yes on other women since we been dating. He isn't a premium member so he can't get messages or whatever on it. He can just click yes. I have mentioned it to him before about how he is still on there. He knows I can see his fb when on his computer and he said well why don't you delete it if you don't like it - talking about the are you interested app. I don't understand why he doesn't delete it and quit going on there since he is dating me? Why is he still going on there and checking notifications and clicking yes on other women anyway? Even if he isn't talking to them or sending messages he is still clicking yes which pretty much says he's interested. He says he don't cheat and wouldn't. But what do you call what he is doing?? He's been on it the whole time we have been together .He don't click yes every day but a few times a month he does. He clicked yes on one this morning!
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posted: 04/24/12 at 11:13 PM
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He's caught up in it. If he doesn't message or respond to messages it is just window-shopping and an ego-boost for him.
I wouldn't like it at all, but I don't think it is likely to actually start harming your relationship unless you let it or he starts comparing you to those women. Are the pictures clothed?
If you would like to delete it, ask him if he means you can delete it and how he would feel about that. It is also maybe possible he can access it through his phone anyway.
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posted: 04/25/12 at 12:26 AM
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Clicking on yes doesn't mean he's interested, it's a childish way of letting someone know he thinks they're attractive. When he receives an "I'm interested" it's nothing but an ego boost for him. He likes hearing that girls find him attractive. Silly really.
If he knows it bothers you and he's still doing it, it's pretty insensitive.
It's not cheating tho. It's a silly game that he's playing because he gets a thrill out of it. Again, silly.
The next time he says "why don't you delete it then?", call him on it and do it. Or ask him the same question. As much as I don't think it's a big deal, I can see how it might aggravate you.
Would he like it if you were doing this?
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posted: 04/25/12 at 4:55 AM
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Personally, I wouldn't date a guy who spent any of his time rating women on their attractiveness. What a turnoff!
Hasn't he got better things to do? Tell him to go look at porn or something. 
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~My opinions change with new information.~
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posted: 05/17/12 at 12:40 AM
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I don't think that you should have access to his facebook on his computer as every time you are with him you will now feel an almost compulsion to see who he has clicked on and who is clicking on him- that alone is taking away from the time the two of you should be together-
I am not sure if you are both exclusive but even so, I am of the belief that you need to not go near his computer at all as it is hurting you and it will destroy anything positive you may have with him
I also would not delete (even if asked to) his apps as that is just his delegating you to do something that really has no bearing on his being trustworthy- yes, it might give you a sense of power or control for an hour or two but do you really want to be with someone who is supposed to be n a relationship with you and yet he is playing some game of clicking on photographs he finds attractive- That does not seem like a man who is working on a relationship- How old is he anyway -he is acting very immature-
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