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posted: 04/20/12 at 6:42 AM

Katie S.  [more]
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Maybe he was being sarcastic. It's hard to read inflection in a text. Or he was saying "no" because he thought your question was just a lead-in to the answer YOU wanted to hear that it was just too tempting to response in the opposite way than expected.

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posted: 04/20/12 at 8:50 AM

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Pfffft, silly Will. If he hadn't been thinking about you, he wouldn't have called you in the first place. Usually, to pick up the telephone and call someone, it means we were thinking about the person we called...LOL I suppose he thought that should be obvious that's why he answered like that. Men!

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posted: 04/20/12 at 9:17 AM

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But imagine whenever he does say he's been thinking about you from now on? It's going to sound so sincere. Also all those messages he sent you from before about thinking of you must mean a lot more now. I do think it's too honest but it's his daughter. I don't think you should confront him about it. He was having a great time with his daughter.

Sounds like a good dad to me.

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posted: 04/20/12 at 11:09 AM

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Sounds like he has a small brain.

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posted: 04/20/12 at 11:32 AM
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The guy was with his daughter, being a good father. If his mind was anywhere else then he would be a schmuck. Get over it and give him credit when credit is due.

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Thumbs up posted: 04/20/12 at 11:42 AM

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I am an IDIOT.

Yesterday I had text him with no reply as I said in my first post. Then after he called at 7pm he said he'd call later and by 10hpm no news so I text hello....nothing....then I send: Are you annoyed at me for some reason? ....nothing

THEN I realize I had been texting all along his nephew's number down in Jamaica....Good job Gail!

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posted: 04/20/12 at 12:16 PM
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OH NO! LOL!

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posted: 04/20/12 at 3:08 PM

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LMAO! His nephew is probably like WHO IS THIS?!

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posted: 04/20/12 at 4:03 PM

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You are not an idiot. You made a mistake. I sent an e-mail to some guy I thought was the guy who sits next to my DH at work inviting him to the suprise party I threw. I couldn't understand why I didn't get a response. Finally I get an email saying this guy I was e-mailing was somebody else in a different state. Whoops.

Honesty is not over rated. Blunt does hurt & while Will was a bit too blunt, intellectually at least you understand why. Tell him to sugar coat it next time. DH had to learn to sugar coat b/c he was a bit too blunt. But honesty is a good thing.

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posted: 04/20/12 at 4:04 PM

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Why are you flagging this man down? Just b/c he misses a couple of calls or txts? He's with his Daughter. He may not be able to call as much. Give him time with his child. He will get in touch when he can.

One would think that his Nephew would let Will know that you were txting.

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