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MFM Surprise for My Wife posted: 04/16/12 at 7:12 PM
Tomas  [more]
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Every now and then, I think it would be amazing to have a MFM with my wife. I think she would be open to it with the right guy (I do have one in mind that I know she finds attractive and think we can trust).

BUT, it's been a while since we talked about it, and I'm nervous about bringing it up. So here's what I'm thinking:

After an evening out, I bring her home telling her I've arranged for a special surprise in our bedroom. Maybe I'll "text" a bit on my phone on the way home, telling her I'm finalizing things (something like that). I don't tell her what, but I do say it's entirely for her pleasure and I think she's going to like it a lot. I blindfold her outside the bedroom, then walk her inside. I stop her and step a way to the far side of the bedroom and whisper very quietly as though to someone else. Then I ask her if she's ready. Assuming she says yes, I remind her that it's entirely for her and she can stop any time she wants. I then strip and walk over to her pretending to be the other guy. I get her on the bed and have at her (or she me), ideally "cumming" a little early. This is all without saying anything, though I may try to throw in some moans and grunts that don't sound like me. Once done, I get off and back away from the bed. Then the real me comes over saying how hot that was and now it's my turn. I give it to her anyway she wants until she cums.

She would, of course, have to remain blindfolded the whole time. Dunno if I can manage that or not. If I do it right, hopefully she'll think she's just been with another guy. I've got some other ideas about how to add realism and convince her it's not me - shaving my junk, slightly different moves, maybe put some cologne on (on my junk too). I'm even considering recording myself saying things how hot she looks and to suck "his" dick and then play it from the other side of the room.

I'm thinking the thrill might coax her into exploring an actual MFM. If not, no biggie. We'll just have had a really good time.

What do you think, women? If your husband did this to you, how would you respond?

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posted: 04/16/12 at 7:42 PM

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I suspect that if she can touch and feel you, even if she's blindfolded, she'll recognize your body. If she were bound, perhaps not. Maybe as the other guy you take her from behind and do stuff you don't normally do.

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posted: 04/16/12 at 7:51 PM

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I suspect I'd hate it, but then I'm very iffy about anything to do with other men. A MFM threesome wouldn't interest me at all.

Having said that, I see no harm in trying this game with your wife. Though I agree with Pusser - she's most likely going to know that it's you, hust from the way your body feels etc.

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posted: 04/16/12 at 11:16 PM

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She will know it is you, all right. But it might be fun regardless of that. She will soon figure out what you are trying to do, and if you have gauged her interest correctly, she will probably play along and enjoy herself. Do shave, and wear a different cologne. The recording would probably sound fake....if I were you, I'd just wouldn't say anything at all. Just do everything in silence, and if she tries to talk, shush her. If she has a submissive streak, she will enjoy that.

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posted: 04/17/12 at 5:51 PM

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If she knows your body, and motions, she'll know it's you.

My opinion on the matter is that, to me, it sounds like that's a lot of effort to have a three way. Maybe she'll like it, but if it were me, I'd feel a little uncomfortable finding out it was just one person and not two. I'd much rather have a real three way, it would feel more open and communicative.

However, if your gal is into games like these, I'm sure she'll love it. Just don't let her touch you.

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posted: 04/18/12 at 12:50 AM

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You said your wife would be open to a threesome with the right guy. It makes me think that your wife would want to know who this mystery man is, to make sure he is the right guy, before starting anything. Which would ruin the whole setup.

I also agree with the others that she will figure out it is you But if she is into this kind of role play, she would still love it.

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posted: 04/18/12 at 9:07 PM
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Great responses all. Yes, she'd probably know it was me. Considering I'd never spring a real threeway on her without prior discussion, that's probably a good thing. For now, we'll just have fun the two of us.

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posted: 04/18/12 at 9:32 PM

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Instead of going through all that elaborate effort....I think it would just be easier to talk about it again. I mean, she could totally freak out in the middle of your plan at the thought of bringing in another man without any recent discussion. With third parties, it's always best to keep all surprises to a minimum.

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