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cute salesman at store posted: 04/10/12 at 10:21 PM
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Hey,
I was with a guy friend a few weeks ago and there was a cute salesman of my background helping us. He asked where w were from and i think he was flirting because he asked if that was my boyfriend in a cute way and we said no we are friends etc.
I've been trying to go back to the store to just say hi or ask for his help. I went once but when i saw him i avoided him. I felt so nervous. Is this normal??
I'm not sure if to bring a friend next time to ask for help. I just think he would be a cool friend or someone to get to know.
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posted: 04/11/12 at 10:04 PM
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Yes, all that is normal. Instead of asking for help or saying hi, you could say, "I found you very attractive and wanted to drop off my phone number in case you feel the same." What an ego boost for a man!
People are most interested in people who are interested in them. Don't be afraid to show your interest if you want a guy to fall head over heels for you.
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posted: 04/11/12 at 11:29 PM
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Are you bold enough to ask for his number? That does not seem like your personality.
Are you looking for a "cool friend" or something more?
How do you know if he was interested....it seems as if you often misunderstand someone's feelings or intentions at times.
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posted: 04/12/12 at 7:50 AM
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I'd opt for giving him mine rather than taking his because asking for his puts him on the spot and could embarrass him. If he's not attracted to you, has a girlfriend, or is worried about talking personal business at work, you will have made him very uncomfortable whether he felt flattered or not.
If I gave him my number and he didn't act on it, I'd just be receptive to the next cute guy who came along.
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posted: 04/14/12 at 11:10 PM
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| Yes, great idea to go by and see if you can see him and if he waits on you- ask him about a shoe- get it in your size and see if by being alone he is still interested or was just being a good salesperson-If you are alone and he is interested, he will either ask you out or ask for your number- then you will know for sure!! Sounds exciting!!!
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posted: 04/17/12 at 7:05 PM
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Hey i did it. I went to the store and almost gave up but he was there when i was about to leave. He recognized me and said how are you and how was your friend? He proceeded to talk to me for about 45 minutes and kept asking me other questions about myself/interests so i could tell he was interested. i gave him my card and he called that night and we talked for 2.5 hours. He said he got out of a long relationship.
I had a feeling he was interested because he kept asking if that was my friend or boyfriend.
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posted: 04/17/12 at 7:08 PM
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| and to answer the OP just looking for a cool friend. I'm in my late 20s and i end up getting hit on my guys in 40s 50s and I'm sick of it. I just want someone my own age who looks decent. I was excited because he's from my culture even though he's younger. i feel like since he is also in college i don't have to justify my success. I feel a bit intimated when i meet more successful people since I'm not working full time right now. I hope it's not wrong to think this way but i think a job defines my success. I don't think that's true but i feel like that is how society views people and that is why i worked so hard in college and its tough when its more difficult to keep a full time job or if you get let go.
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