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While I'm orgasming, I prefer to:
Have the stimulation continue throughout the orgasm
Have the stimulation continued, but slower or gentler
Have the stimulation or thrusting stop until the orgasm is over
Have nothing touching my penis
Other (or varied)
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Preferred stimulation during orgasm/ejaculation? posted: 03/29/12 at 4:32 PM
Intrinsicly  [more]
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I have a question that I'm somewhat curious about, so I thought I'd ask here! I recently read an excerpt from a study by Masters and Johnson (two big sex researchers) that said that that less than 10% of men continue thrusting or stimulating the penis during orgasm/ejaculation, and that most just hold still until it is over, regardless of what form of sexual act is taking place. However, I have noticed in porn (since I don't know what guys do otherwise, and porn obviously doesn't mimic reality) that 99% of the men there seem to not only continue stimulation during their orgasms, but seem to want more lol. I found that discrepancy very interesting, so I thought I would ask here and find out what sort of stimulation, if any, most men prefer during their orgasms. Also ladies, feel free to share your partner's preferences as well!

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posted: 03/29/12 at 5:39 PM

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posted: 03/29/12 at 5:46 PM
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posted: 03/29/12 at 7:41 PM

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My partner likes some stimulation during orgasm, but very mildly - the head of his penis gets extremely sensitive, so I have to be careful.

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posted: 03/29/12 at 8:52 PM

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For me, there's a slow down, for the increased sensitivity negates the need for as much friction as full thrusting provides. But I don't come to a complete halt. In fact, say, when my wife's on top, after I start cumming I want her to keep moving all the way through the ejaculation, which can take several seconds to complete.

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"My mother used to tell me, 'In this world, you must be oh so smart or oh so pleasant.' Well, for years I was smart. I recommend pleasant." Ellwood P. Dowd in HARVEY

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posted: 03/29/12 at 11:18 PM

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Heh...a lot of the orgasms in porn are fake. And porn stars are very different sexually. They train themselves to do things that most people would find uncomfortable or impossible. Never look to porn for a study of human sexual response. Definitely do as you did here and ask other people.

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posted: 03/30/12 at 1:30 AM
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hi is this working

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Yes, lisa23.

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"My mother used to tell me, 'In this world, you must be oh so smart or oh so pleasant.' Well, for years I was smart. I recommend pleasant." Ellwood P. Dowd in HARVEY

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My vote is in!

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posted: 04/02/12 at 9:07 PM
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Prefer to hold out as long as possible, flirting with the line, but once I'm going to cum, I freeze, and it's on it's own. Stimulation and thrusting up to the point is great. But when I'm ejaculating-- there isn't any reason or point for more stimulation.

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