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Is he normal? posted: 03/11/12 at 6:26 AM
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Okay i did post a similar question but i want this thread to share more details about my hubby nd seek your opinion if he is normal or do I need to take him to sex therapist
He is 29, i am his first sexual partner , nd we both were virgins before marriage. Sex happened after marriage for us nd our sex life basically intercourse, is next to none. He doesnt go to zym, nd doesnt involve in any activity. Before he started job he was very athletic, used to play sports regularly nd was very fit. Basically after job he left everything nd became very lazy. Ours was a love marriage nd we both had 4 years of romance before getting married.
He works a lot sometimes 14 hrs a day nd he also travels international every second month. this is why now he has no life outside office work. He doesnt go out have almost no friends nd remain inside the four walls of our home during weekends.
Sexual problem:
He has never done masturbation even in his adulthood, he hates masturbation nd he hates semen, the smell of it nd everything. He is very hygenic even if one drop of semen comes out he will either bath or atleast change hisundergarments.
His penis are hard, thick nd long. He is mostly erected on bed nd loves talking about sex with me. He loves sharing fantasies nd encourage me to share mine too. He suck my breasts every day nd kisses my body.
Now the bad part, he doesnt do intercourse, its very rare nd i have to force him. He never got orgasm or rather he never discharged semeN in intercourse. He can hold that for hours. He simply hates doing **** but he loves sucking nd playing with my breasts everyday. I am 100%sure he is not gay he loves women just that he hates intercourse.
Please help me understand does he have a pronblem?
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posted: 03/11/12 at 6:38 AM
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| He has a hangup about sex. It's hard to know what's behind it, but if you want to have a sex life with regular sex, then he's probably going to need some counseling.
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Poor is the man whose pleasures depend on the permission of another
~My opinions change with new information.~
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posted: 03/11/12 at 11:16 PM
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| I don't know, honestly. I'm not experienced in that realm. I haven't ever had a partner who was so grossed out by or afraid of sex. I think the best thing you can do for him is go with him to the counselor. Find a licensed sex therapist, if you can. All I can really do is wish you good luck!
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Poor is the man whose pleasures depend on the permission of another
~My opinions change with new information.~
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posted: 03/12/12 at 5:10 PM
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Originally posted by Pusser
Does he give you oral sex? Do you give HIM oral sex? I'm guessing he probably thinks that's gross, too.
You are right he hates it, he dont want oral sex... But so far in 2 years i have forced him to give me oral sex five times. He was amazing down under. After giving me oral for 15 minutes he brushed twice, used mouthfash mutiple times and cleaned his tongue and gargled around 10 times. So far i gave him only once and he dint like that. He also disncourage me to even think of oral sex.
Not sure whats wrong with him. Is it somethng with his lifestyle or may be his defination of sex is limited to sucking and kissing upper body of women.
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posted: 03/12/12 at 5:12 PM
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Originally posted by GenuineLuv915
Did something happen to him during his childhood that he hates it? Hate to bring it up but was he molested? I cant think of any reason why a man hates sex.
After speaking to him about this he told me that he did had one incidence but now he doesnt remember it. The memory of that incidence had faded.
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