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Does ankley mean hotwife
definitely not
a few believe it means hotwife
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Meaning of wife wearing anklet posted: 02/19/12 at 8:32 PM
BlondeKimnWes  [more]
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Hello, we are a happily married white couple with two kids in the Hudson Valley area of NY, both my husband and I in good shape, fairly attractive, 38 and 40.

For a couple of years we been trying new things to spice up our sex life and keep our marriage fun. About 3 months ago my husband bought me a nice looking gold anklet for me to wear. Neither one of us realized it carried a message or symbol.

For sometime now my husband and I go out dancing, Wes doesn't dance and is not the jealous type, and he is more than ok if I have fun with dancing with other men.

It was amazing when I wore the anklet to the nightclub, the number of men asking me to dance in the course of the night skyrocketed. Then a couple people told us that the anklet means I am a "hotwife" and open to sex with other men. Do most people know this hidden meaning anklet = hotwife.

I openly admit I like the added male attention the anklet brings and my husband gets a kick out of it. Yes I do shed my image of mother of two when I go dancing with a miniskirt that shows some cleavage but I find myself wearing the anklet just about everyday now. Your thoughts, BlondeKim

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posted: 02/20/12 at 5:02 AM

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Never heard of it. I know women who wear anklets and they don't get approached because of it.

Having said that, I'm in the UK... maybe it's different here.

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posted: 02/20/12 at 6:27 AM

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I've never heard of it, either.

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posted: 02/20/12 at 6:47 AM
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i've never heard of that. i wear an anklet i haven't had anyone approach me because of it.

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posted: 02/20/12 at 8:55 AM

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I've heard of it, but I doubt it's a very good flag. Most people haven't heard about what it's supposed to mean, and lots of non-hotwife women wear them. If you were getting more attention in the club, maybe it was just a really nice looking anklet.

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posted: 02/20/12 at 12:09 PM

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It's just a coincidence I think, that you happened to meet a couple of people who thought that an anklet is a symbol for people in the lifestyle.

Just by the way, "hotwife" is actually derogatory. We like to call it "being in the lifestyle". "Hotwife" implies a woman who gets passed around, as if she has no sexual autonomy. That's offensive for a lot of people.

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Hmmm..is there a special meaning to it? i never heard of that too. i thought its just another piece of accessory some women wear. I dun wear an anklet but i have been told i am a sexy mom anyway,haha!

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posted: 02/20/12 at 4:36 PM

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The first thing in my mind was.. that has to be one big shiny anklet u have there lol. I love anklet and I came to U.S wearing one from my sister for a couple years and just been wearing a new one for almost a year now, it's gold and cute and pretty but people don't really notice it since it's 'thin'. sure it has nice design but even when I am in bar, it's hardly noticeable. I don't feel the different of the approach by guys before or after the anklet.

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posted: 02/20/12 at 8:37 PM

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Originally posted by blondgrrl
Just by the way, "hotwife" is actually derogatory. We like to call it "being in the lifestyle". "Hotwife" implies a woman who gets passed around, as if she has no sexual autonomy.


I don't think I agree with that. I think that the term refers to a specific kind of nonmonogamy different from straight swinging, specifically cuckolding. That is to say, a "hotwife" would be the dominant wife of a submissive cuckold fetishist, whereas someone "in the lifestyle" would be a swinger. There's an important distinction there where one activity involves an element of male sexual submission and humiliation, while the other involves equal partners. Most cuckold fetishist couples would probably not self-identify as swingers, but they do frequently self-identify as cuckold/hotwife.

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posted: 02/20/12 at 10:35 PM

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maybe context?
Was there anything special about the club you went to?

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