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He's still hard after sex posted: 07/24/11 at 7:04 AM

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What does it mean? Should I be worried that he isn't thorougly satisfied or have enough sex when even after we had sex and he has cum that he's still hard?

I've noticed this a few times and also sometimes he comes pretty quickly, other times he takes forever....is it that he's not that into it or what?

Im just a tad bit inexperienced in this area and a bit shy as well...

Your thoughts...tips...suggestions would be much appreciated.

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posted: 07/24/11 at 10:15 AM

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It's quite common to stay hard, even after orgasm. Not every man is cut from the same cloth though. Some might go soft quickly, others may be able to go again. I am sure that there is no link between the hardness of his penis and his satisfaction with the sex he just had.

The speed at which he comes is due to a number of various things...level of arousal, type of stimulation. I don't think it's fair to say that the time it takes goes hand in hard with how much he's into it.

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posted: 07/24/11 at 11:44 AM

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To put it in a different light, think of it this way-would you rather him stay hard and raring to go another round? Or would it be better if he went limp and you had to coax him a long time to get him hard again?

Don't think twice about it Very normal. Next time it happens, say "Oh, I see you're good to go another round!"

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posted: 07/24/11 at 9:27 PM

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It is very normal, nothing to worry about.Many men can stay hard after sex, some time it gets soft but after some stroking or orals, the erection is back for a second round.Hope this help.

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posted: 07/25/11 at 5:32 AM

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It's a sign that you should keep on going. :-)

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