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female ejaculation, squirting or gushing: The Day My Sexlife Changed Forever! posted: 06/19/11 at 11:37 PM
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Maybe you've seen it in a porn flick, read about it or even experienced it first hand. On January 13, 2011, everything I thought I knew about sex and my body was changed forever. On that evening my best friend and I went out and I had one thing on my mind, I HAD to get laid! It had been about 6 months and I was HORNY! So, we go to one of our local hang outs and ran into some guys we already knew. This one guy in particular I had known for about 6 years and had never really given a serious thought of sex. Well I am not sure if it was the 2 shots of tequila and 4 beers or the fact that I was so desperate to get some that I when he suggested we go back to my place and have cheap meaningless sex, I was delighted and off we went!

Now, I am a 40 year old divorced single mother. It's not like I haven't experienced sex. Generally speaking I am a freak! LOL I truly LOVE sex, have no hang ups and am comfortable in my own skin. So anyway, it doesn't take long we are in my bed already naked foreplay is at full throttle! He's fingering me and Then................ Whammo!! I was cumming and literally I had gushed something! This was the first time this happened to me!! I wasn't quite sure what happened! It felt AMAZING and my friend was thrilled He asked me to do it again! LMAO I told him I would love to, if I only knew what it was I did!! I told him I had never done that before! The sex went on with no more gushing and it was White HOT!

Skip ahead 2 more weeks, My friend and I seem to quite enjoy this recent FWB relationship so we are going at it again in my kitchen. I am on the counter and he's banging me, all of the sudden it happens again! Only this time it didn't just gush out of me. We both watched in amazement as I came with such force that I literally squirted across the room and made a HUGE puddle in the kitchen floor! At this point I figured ok there is something to this and I HAVE to figure out what it is!

It's not like I had Zero knowledge of the subject, I had, had sex with girls before and had seen other women do it. But NOT like that. Not with so much force that is literally SHOT across the room! I had never had an orgasm like that and really thought it was something that well... some women can do and some can't. I figured quite a long time ago that I was in the "can't" camp! Boy is this one time I am thrilled to admit how WRONG I was!

I am a bit of a research junky when it comes to learning things I am interested in, so I hit the internet. Found a few sites with legitimate information on the subject and learned that ALL women actually are capable of doing this. However, I did find a site created by this guy Jason Julius, that explained it, gave instructions on how to do it and other sex education. I am not here to advertise for this guy, he pays me nothing. I found his site extremely informative and the products he offers worth every dime! You can still find plenty of free information about squirting on the internet and I am in NO way trying to sell anything for him. I just thought his name worthy of mention since his techniques brought me to were I am now.

After a few months of banging my FWB... I was doing it every time we had sex! My orgasms were the most intense and satisfying of my life! I kept trying on my own to make myself do it but I was mentally in my own way. Til one day myself and FWB had a HUGE fight! I was bummed out thinking I am never gonna cum like that again! He had been the ONLY man to ever make me cum like that! What was I gonna do!?!? I had to make myself do it or I was doomed! LMAO Well... I guess a little desperation and determination worked because that very day I accomplished what I had been trying to do for months! and Not just a little but I made myself squirt like a damn fountain! LOL

Well me and FWB made up and still are having sex occasionally. (not as often as before) I do have sex with other people too on occasion and now this little trick that I initially thought was a fluke has turned into a permanent part of my sex life. I had to buy a mattress protector because I do it SO much now that I can soak an entire bed before sex is over. I wish I could measure it! I have resorted to masturbating in the bath tub as I don't want to change my sheets everyday. I once put the stopper in the tub just to see the sheer volume of my latest accomplishment and I swear it looked to me like it was at least 2 or 3 cups worth of fluid. That's just by myself I do it more when I have a partner and am really turned on!

I have read and seen posts by other people who think that squirting is fake and a trick produced by the porn industry. A myth of epic proportions. I have even had a guy accuse me of pissing on him! WOW!! That was really funny to me btw... I am here to assure you that I cannot control this. I still do occasionally have orgasms with no squirt.. (those seem disappointing now) This is NOT fake and I found once I got out of my own way something that makes me quite unique!

I would like to hear other people's real experiences, what kind of volume and when and how often this happens with you. Questions are encouraged and welcome. I am a vey open minded person you will find no judgment here! Can't wait to hear from some of you!

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posted: 06/22/11 at 11:19 AM

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Haven't been here in a while. Although I'm not female I thought I'd jump in...my wife is forty as well, and we've been having sex for a lot of years...then, one night, boom, it happened. She came all over my arm while I was fingering/going down on her. It's happened a couple more times, but not across the room like you describe. I think she is still a little shy about it, so I'm hoping to bring it back.

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posted: 06/22/11 at 11:20 PM
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cool, my wife only squirts a little but its sexy as hell and she likes how it feels. It usually happens with oral and a finger on her gspot but also happens with her on top.

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posted: 06/23/11 at 4:48 AM
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As Women we are made to feel like we shouldn't "make a mess" if you let her know how much it turns you on and you actually like the mess this will encourage her to relax and maybe squirt more. For me the amazing height I reach during those orgasms are well worth the clean up afterwards!! Keep up the good work!

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posted: 06/23/11 at 5:00 AM

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I’ve only been with one woman who could squirt – and it was no small trickle. The first time it happened, I knew what it was, but it surprised me a little. And it turned me on! She was also multi-orgasmic and could squirt more than once while I fu(ked her.

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posted: 06/23/11 at 6:10 AM

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Good for you, OP.

One thing I feel I should mention is that not all women can ejaculate. There has been research done, but it's been very spotty. For example, the latest research to find the Gspot was done in the UK on twins, but they only used a very small control group, and their findings weren't conclusive. So far, there really has been no real answer to this question of what the Gspot is, where it is, and why it works the way it does. Female sexuality really isn't high on the list of priorities of science, so I doubt an answer will be forthcoming anytime soon.

Any pay site that tells you it can teach you how to ejaculate may be ripping you off, because some women may not even have a Gspot.

I only wanted to mention that in case any of the women reading feel pressured by their partner. It's fine to try, and keep trying, but no one should be made to feel in adequate that they can't do it. Everyone's body really is different, especially in regards to the Gspot.

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posted: 06/23/11 at 11:52 AM

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For me, multi-orgasms happen quite often, squirting only happen with the 'right' mood, with LOTS of foreplays and especially when he hit/touches the right spot.. i can feel the nice sensation and the 'flow' between the thighs, however..the volume wont be that much that i can soaked the bed..lol

Yeah..every women is different, our sexuality and body reaction are different.We can only keep exploring our body and understand wat makes us feel GOOD..

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posted: 06/23/11 at 11:24 PM
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I just wanted to share this information. You can believe how ever you choose that is up to you.

http://www.the-clitoris.com/n_html/female_ejaculation.htm

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Skene's_gland

http://www.renalandurologynews.com/evidence-of-female-prostate-found/article/57869/

Enjoy!! And remember sex is supposed to be enjoyable for all involved safe, sane and consensual!

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posted: 06/24/11 at 12:00 AM

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I don't want to rain on anyone's parade, but I am by nature a skeptic, so if someone makes claims I feel obligated to point out any errors I see so that no one will come to a false conclusion based on faulty logic and/or poor science.

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http://www.the-clitoris.com/n_html/...ejaculation.htm


This article is not based on any scientific fact, and is highly biased to the writer's personal point of view. What is needed to convince anyone that this information has basis in fact is that the information be backed up by either an article or a study from a respected, peer-reviewed scientific journal.

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Originally posted by fiesty40 http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Skene's_gland


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Some believe that the Skene's glands are the source of female ejaculation.Skene's glands have highly variable anatomy, and in some extreme cases they appear to be absent entirely. If Skene's glands are the cause of female ejaculation and G-Spot-orgasms, this may explain the absence in many women.[3][4]


Yes, SOME believe this. This glad MAY be responsible for female ejaculation. IF it is, then that would explain why there are women who can't ejaculate.

This article expresses doubts, because scientists by far are not in agreement on this issue. There just hasn't been enough research done yet to prove anything conclusively.

There needs to be far more effort put into studying female sexual response.

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Originally posted by fiesty40 http://www.renalandurologynews.com/evidence-of-female-prostate-found/article/57869/


This is a study based on observations of two women. Two is not a large enough group to base any findings on. Again, we need a reliable, peer-reviewed study published in a respected scientific journal in order to come to any sort of conclusion. But there just aren't any, because female sexual response is low on the list of priorities....which really is very sad.

I wish I could give my total support to the existence of the Gspot, but I just can't, as it would be intellectually dishonest. I also feel it would promote the idea that women who can't ejaculate are not whole, are damaged or emotionally blocked off, or may even make women who can't ejaculate feel inadequate.

The only real fact here is that there are plenty of women who can ejaculate, and plenty of women who can't. There needs to be tons more research before we can make any claims as to the why and how of it.

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posted: 06/27/11 at 9:04 PM

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I think my wife is one of those women that can't ejaculate. I am definitely in the camp of "wow that's awesome" so my wife has tried many times for me. She is lucky in being multi-orgasmic and (for goodness sakes) can have an orgasm if I look at her the wrong way. But no squirting. It's been a lot of fun trying!

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