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Sex during pregnancy posted: 04/16/11 at 4:23 AM

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Hi Ladies / Mommies,

Im currently in my second trimester. I was wondering if any ladies here prefer sex much more during pregnancy. i remember during my first pregnancy (abt 8yrs ago) i wanted sex all the time and cant seems to get enough. but for this pregnancy, im alittle less interested in sex.We still enjoy our regular sessions but it felt alittle different.

Btw, some ppl think that having multi-orgasms and rough sex is a big no-no during pregnancy, so wat do u think?

Any thoughts and experiences to share? Thanks!

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posted: 04/16/11 at 5:43 AM
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If you are at risk of premature labour there is a chance that your husband's sperm may bring on the labour.

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posted: 04/16/11 at 8:28 AM

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Thanks for sharing your thoughts Margery. i was told by my gynae that it is perfectly safe to have sex /orgasm during pregnancy, however i was worried that too much orgasms can cause contractions so i try not to have multi-orgasm each time but sometime it happened in my sleep which i have no control over. anyone experienced that too?

Its been so long since my first pregnancy so i guess i forgot some pg symptoms,lol..this time i felt nausea, no appetite and feeling sleepy all the time esp during my first trimester but now my energy are back.

Well, my mom on the other hand thinks that its best to avoid sex during pregnancy while my gfs told me to avoid sex only during the 3rd trimester, wow! i've read many old wives tales and everyone seems to have different advises...oh geez, im alittle confused and i dunno who to listen to.

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posted: 04/18/11 at 8:36 PM
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Sex is absolutely safe during pregnancy unless there is complications that arise that the doctor will suggest against it. Other than that, its very normal and safe to have sex throughout your pregnancy I know I did! lol

The hormones in your body cause the appetite for it to go up naturally and around the second trimester is when you will notice an increased difference in it. Though every pregnancy is different, so sometimes you might not even feel like having sex, which is also normal, just depends on you.

It's also safe to have sex into your third trimester, so there is no need for alarm unless you experience some discomfort. I would like to point out though, that sex is great to jump start labor after a certain point in the pregnancy, my doctor told me when I hit the 39 week mark to have sex to onset labor. It does in fact work

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posted: 04/19/11 at 2:46 AM

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Thanks realityfaery, reading ur comment makes me feel alot better.. yeah it's true, some days i really feel that my libido is high at this stage and some other days it's like zero mood,lol..i just dun want to turn away sex completely. my hubby have to be extra gentle on me cos some positions are alittle uncomfortable for me now, as for multi-orgasms, i try not to have them too regular but maybe i'll have more in the 3rd trimester..hehe!

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posted: 04/19/11 at 8:35 PM
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You're welcome! Though I would say enjoy the multi-o's! I do! lol

It does get a little uncomfortable with some positions, which makes it fun to find the ones that aren't

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Yeah, i do enjoy multi-climax alot. just that the contractions freak me out alittle.. but i figure its a great time to explore some new positions.

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"Double-Standards Are Lies, Hypocrites And Contradictions. Live By What You Preach!!!"

"Don't Waste Your Time On Revenge, Those Who Hurt You Will Eventually Face Their Own Karma Because What Goes Around, Comes Around And Karma Has NO Dateline.Life Is Too SHORT To Waste Time On Stupid People,Bullies,Haters and Whiners..Don't Ever Let Anyone Bring You Down When You Know You Are Better and Wiser.Be Someone With RESPECT, Good Attitude, Style And Class!"~WildSnake~

"The Smiles From My Children Reminds Me How Wonderful And Rewarding Motherhood Is. You Can Never Fully Understand The Beauty, The Power Of Motherhood And The JOY Of A Mother Unless You Are One!"
"There May Be Many Flowers In A Man's Life, But There is Only ONE Rose In His Heart."

"I love seeing old married couples, it makes me realize that someone can actually LOVE ONE person Faithfully In A Lifetime!..It's BLISSFUL that my hubby is All MINE and the ONLY woman he Loves!"

"Haters Gonna' Hate! I Laugh Cuz You FAKE! Go And HATE All You Want, Know I'm Something That You Ain't !!!"~Hon Raps~

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posted: 04/20/11 at 7:14 PM
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Yeah, i do enjoy multi-climax alot. just that the contractions freak me out alittle.. but i figure its a great time to explore some new positions.


The contractions can be a little worrisome, so if you want just go ahead and take it easy, but I think you should be ok

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My aunt is a midwife, i think sex is safe during pregnancy so carry on,by the way,
pregnant women are always sexy and attractive.Enjoy!

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posted: 05/09/11 at 3:16 AM

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Hi jungleboy, thanks for sharing ur advise and i appreciate that. Yeah, that's exactly wat my gynae told me earlier that it's perfectly safe.

I do enjoy being pregnant like many women outhere and we keep sex FUN, hehe! well, i think my hubby does enjoy 'rocking' the bed now.LOL!!

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"Always BE YOURSELF! No matter what People Think..An Original Is Always Worth MORE Than A COPY! Speak Your Mind and Be Honest! That Is A Good Recipe Of Self-Respect, Self-Love And Self-Worth."

"Double-Standards Are Lies, Hypocrites And Contradictions. Live By What You Preach!!!"

"Don't Waste Your Time On Revenge, Those Who Hurt You Will Eventually Face Their Own Karma Because What Goes Around, Comes Around And Karma Has NO Dateline.Life Is Too SHORT To Waste Time On Stupid People,Bullies,Haters and Whiners..Don't Ever Let Anyone Bring You Down When You Know You Are Better and Wiser.Be Someone With RESPECT, Good Attitude, Style And Class!"~WildSnake~

"The Smiles From My Children Reminds Me How Wonderful And Rewarding Motherhood Is. You Can Never Fully Understand The Beauty, The Power Of Motherhood And The JOY Of A Mother Unless You Are One!"
"There May Be Many Flowers In A Man's Life, But There is Only ONE Rose In His Heart."

"I love seeing old married couples, it makes me realize that someone can actually LOVE ONE person Faithfully In A Lifetime!..It's BLISSFUL that my hubby is All MINE and the ONLY woman he Loves!"

"Haters Gonna' Hate! I Laugh Cuz You FAKE! Go And HATE All You Want, Know I'm Something That You Ain't !!!"~Hon Raps~

"Be A Light, Not A Judge.Be A Model, Not A Critic! I Do Not Judge People By The Scriptures Of Their Faith And The Scars From Their Past, I Embrace Them By The Contents Of Their HEARTS And KINDNESS."


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