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Where to spend the wedding night?
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| Bed and Breakfast in the Country |
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| Large motel or Hotel in the City. |
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| Other |
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posted: 04/03/11 at 6:36 PM
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| It's hard to vote without more details. If you're having a big, traditional wedding and reception, keep in mind you'll be probably be exhausted. It would be best to go somewhere that you can get to easily after the wedding day. If the B&B in the country is a 4 hour drive, you might want to skip it. If you think the big city hotel would be fun for sightseeing the next day, skip that too- you're going to be too tired. Just go somewhere nice, relaxing, and convenient where you can really focus on being together.
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posted: 04/04/11 at 6:07 AM
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The wedding is in a small college town. The bed and Breakfast is 20 minutes away. The hotel in the city is about 45 minutes away.
We are having a traditional ceremony but the reception has required some creativity so I am not sure how traditional the reception will be.
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posted: 04/04/11 at 2:31 PM
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| In a small country B&B, you'll be the toast of the town; in a big city hotel, you'll be just another patron. In my experience, the B&B owners will go out of your way to treat you well because you're just married. I stayed at one after our wedding, and I wouldn't have traded it for a hotel room in a nice hotel. No matter how "nice' it is, it's just a hotel room, where I am a nameless, faceless guest, and all the rooms look the same. There's just no charm to it!
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posted: 04/04/11 at 7:02 PM
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| I'd say for me, I'd like the peace and quiet that comes with B&B, it gives you a more homelike feel, but more attention goes to catering to the both of you. To me in a city there is more to focus on with sightseeing, with a B&B which are usually in a quiet area, you have more time to focus on each other. Really it depends on what type of personality you both have. Some would rather opt for the city lights and sight seeing. I know my husband and I have our first anniversary coming up and I'd like for us to do something which we could focus more on each other, but that's only because we have 3 kids that keep us busy. We still make time for each other, but for one special night I'd like for us to be able to focus on just each other for longer than a couple of hours.
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posted: 04/05/11 at 12:58 AM
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| With a "creative" reception, I'd say you should allow even more opportunity to rest and relax afterwards. I think it's possible to relax at either place- maybe a B&B is quieter with more personal attention, maybe a city hotel has room service and a spa with hot tub. Whichever you decide, just don't plan on doing anything the next day. Odds are you'll be exhausted. Who knows, maybe you won't- but it'll be better without the pressure of catching a museum tour or tee time or whatever.
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