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Re: A poll on Oral sex posted: 03/17/11 at 1:01 AM
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Originally posted by s21n08
I find that it bothers me much much more after reading through the posts on here.
Keep in mind the LYC community will NEVER give you a true idea of what happens in most people's bedrooms.
Think about it - not everyone searches for and becomes a registered member of a forum of this kind. Not everyone joins a community board to get feedback on their relationship and/or sex lives.
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posted: 03/17/11 at 3:04 AM
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That's true bialy. You can include me as one of those people. I had NO idea about this type of forum in the past. One of the main problems seems to be that when you type in a sexual term in google you are blasted with porn sites, rather than forums that objectively DISCUSS same. I think LYC was great and I know it has definitely improved my performance and bedroom manner. But yes, we do seem to be a concentrated group of sex-nuts. 
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posted: 04/28/11 at 6:51 AM
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I totally disagree that this forum has a negative effect. To the contrary, anything that encourages people to go outside their boundaries and do something they may not have considered before is a GOOD thing.
It's called "sex positive activism" and what that means is people spreading the idea that sex is good, healthy, and fun.
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~My opinions change with new information.~
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posted: 05/04/11 at 3:31 AM
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| I absolutely LOVE giving my wife oral!!! She has some of her best orgasms that way. She does not give it to me all that often, but that is OK with me. I actually prefer her hand jobs. She gets me to the edge oh so slowly and keeps me there until I can't stand it anymore. WOW!!!
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“The marriage bed must be a place of mutuality – the husband seeking to satisfy his wife and the wife seeking to satisfy the husband. Marriage is not a place to ‘stand up for your rights.’ Marriage is a decision to serve the other whether in bed or out.” 1 Cor, 7: “The Message”
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posted: 05/17/11 at 8:55 PM
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I'm lucky to be mostly on the receiving end of his oral loving and he loves going down on me. I do sometimes feel a bit guilty that I don't return the favor enough or equally but he builds me up to such a high that I either orgasm or beg him to f**k me or simply just push his c**k into me so that we can come together.
He sometimes just goes down on me until I come.
I enjoy giving him oral but don't like the taste of come so he always holds out or ends it before he explodes. I don't mind if he lets go on my breasts or belly. If he gives me enough notice, I'll let him finish off between my breasts. If there's a bottle of lube nearby, I quite enjoy it when he thrusts between my breasts after I've given him oral.
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posted: 05/27/11 at 4:40 AM
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We both give and receive. I probably go down on him a bit more often than he does on me, but we seem to have found a happy medium. I was getting a little bit resentful for awhile because I would give him blow jobs at least a couple of times a week (coming in my mouth, swallowing - love it) but I was only getting oral sex once every month or two. We had a couple of talks about it and now he surprises me with it a couple of times a week! It's awesome! He's so good at it! And the sex afterwards is always so amazing for me... anyway.
I actually find his cum rather tasty most of the time.
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posted: 08/23/11 at 3:16 PM
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Everytime my wife and I make love, before penetration I always go down on her and spend a lot of time giving her pleasure and 90% of the time an orgasm.
Sadly I have only had one BJ off her in 21 years of marriage, she sucks me a little from time to time but I only came in her mouth once and she hated the taste.
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posted: 08/23/11 at 9:19 PM
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We used to have oral a lot. She always blew me more than I ate her. That was always her choice. I think it was a puritanical kind of thing.
Now there is NO oral in our sex lives. At least not mine. She doesn't desire to have it or do it anymore. I've talked to a few women her age that are the same way.
What gives with that? It's just plain wrong. These are supposed to be our golden years. Now I realize the best times are behind us. LOL
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posted: 09/18/11 at 11:39 PM
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ply, I completely understand. I think it's a generational thing. I'm a few years older than you are and my wife is about your age. We both grew up religiously conservative, so such matters simply weren't discussed and were expected to be within the confines of marriage. Comfort with oral is something that I think is very much dependent upon one's view of the human body, sexuality, morality, the purpose of the body parts, etc., and marriage does not necessarily flip the switch to "on" when things sexual have been "off" for so long. My wife likes to play with me orally, but not to conclusion. As with dirty talk, it's something she simply can't get past at her age, after so long feeling otherwise (neither of us married nor had extensive sexual histories 'til we married....40ish).
Older than her, but perhaps more liberal in many areas, I'm unbothered by it and give her fulfilling oral routinely. I think to her, that's my choice and her not reciprocating is HER choice. Golden or not, our sexual future is pretty much charted already. C'est la vie!
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"My mother used to tell me, 'In this world, you must be oh so smart or oh so pleasant.' Well, for years I was smart. I recommend pleasant." Ellwood P. Dowd in HARVEY
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