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posted: 02/26/11 at 2:25 AM
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Personally, i wont go for breasts implant cos i dun like anything fake on my body, well..im not saying its wrong to go for plastic surgery, but you need to consider carefully if u really want this, dun do any implusive and regret later, thats my advise for you.First thing first, i think u need to love ur body first, build up ur confidence and remember, no one is perfect in this world.
My man is a "breasts man" and he admit he prefer women with big boobs, he spend more time looking at my breasts than other parts of my body, i dun have super big boobs and ass but im happy and confident the way i am, i love my bikinis during summer!!yeah!.. im a C-cup, tall and slim and i really thank my parents for giving me good looks and body.
In my opinion, if a man really loves you, he wouldnt mind a smaller boobs, i understand you want to look good and feel sexy, everybody does as well so its nothing wrong with wanting to look better, anyway, the choice is yours.
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posted: 02/26/11 at 2:32 AM
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[I also think you are wrong about men on all the other points you mention. It sounds like you have low self-esteem and think that physical alterations will help. They won't. We like women exactly as they are. Don't change things, don't ruin your body with tattoos and boob jobs. Be natural. And look for the kind of man who will accept you as you are. [/B][/QUOTE]
@ CT : Tattoos and implants/boob jobs are 2 different things so pls dun lump them together.Tattoos dun require surgery unlike implants.Perhaps u hate tattoos but there are people outhere who appreciate body art.
Anyway, the op is asking our pov of boobs implant, if u wanna talk abt tattoos, maybe you'll like to start a new thread.
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"Don't Waste Your Time On Revenge, Those Who Hurt You Will Eventually Face Their Own Karma Because What Goes Around, Comes Around And Karma Has No Dateline..Life Is Too SHORT To Waste Time On Stupid People, Bullies, Haters and Whiners. Don't Let Anyone Bring You Down When You Know You Are Better and Wiser.Be Someone With RESPECT, Good Attitude and Class." ~WildSnake~
I Believe In LOVE At First Sight..Because I'm A MOM!!..I Never Knew How Much Love My Heart Could Hold Until Someone Called Me "Mommy"..I feel BLESSED To Be a Wife and Mother. My Hubby and Kids Complete My Life! I LOVE My Family!
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"I love seeing old married couples, it makes me realize that someone can actually LOVE ONE person Faithfully In A Lifetime!.." It's BLISSFUL that my hubby is All MINE and the ONLY woman he Loves!
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posted: 02/26/11 at 4:37 AM
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It is impossible to say all men hate small breasts or all men hate breast implants. Some have preferences sure but enough to not be with a woman? That has to be pretty rare. The perspectives you listed do sound as though they came from younger men.
Never get cosmetic surgery for anyone but yourself.
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posted: 02/26/11 at 6:25 PM
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I guess I just care too much about what men think or feel, when I should be able to just say f... it. But I can't, I just care so much about men, because it seems the media is male driven to cater to men's tastes, so it's hard not to compare myself, I hate torturing myself like this 
And no joke, I've had guys say that it is unrealistic to find a guy who thinks smaller is better than big because bigger breasts turn mor men on, citing strippers and porn stars as references, and all that... but that it doesn't mean that I won't find the right man who will love me for me, look past that flaw (I hate it when they say it like that) and be attracted to me, even if he's still more turned on by big breasts... that one guy will find me cute, maybe not hot, but cute and then I should be happy. But I don't want to feel like a consolation prize or something. I want a guy to think I'm both cute and hot, to want me and my breasts, not to think of them as a small flaw to overlook.
Of course I don't want a man who is close minded and only finds small breasts attractive, but just as there are men who like all sizes but prefer big, there must be men who like all sizes but prefer small, right?
I just get sick of all the big boob propaganda, it's like they want all men to like big breasts and all women to feel their breasts are too small, just so that we end up getting surgery, or pills and scams, and they get more money...
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posted: 02/26/11 at 6:55 PM
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Your reasoning behind considering a boob job is weak and will simply lead to more unhappiness when you realize that the type of guy who would make such a comment makes the worst sort of partner and you'll still be left feeling empty.
Keep yourself like you are and wait for that guy who doesn't judge you on the size of your breasts...because mark my words, if a guy judges you on that, you can be sure he's not relationship material.
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posted: 02/26/11 at 6:58 PM
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| My wife is a 34-B and I LOVE them!!! She is 41 and they definitely stand at attention which makes her look much younger. Smaller breasts generally have smaller areolas and nice nips which i LOVE!!!! I am not a fan of saucer sized areolas.....gimme the a-b-c women!!!! T***F**** is way over rated....leave yours as they are.
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posted: 02/26/11 at 7:50 PM
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Whenever these types of topics come up, it really irks me when other types of women (or in this case, women's breasts) are put down in order to make the OP to feel better about herself.
Anyway, to the OP: Do you realize that you are putting your self-worth in men's hands? And not just in a specific guy's hands...but the entire population of men!
This seems to be less about what men think and more about what you think about your breasts. Asking these men would they rather big boobs vs. small boobs, is like asking them if they'd rather have blonde vs. brunette, or fat vs. skinny, or shaved, vs. unshaved, or.....the list could go on and on.
Guys love boobs...period. BTW, confidence is really attractive, especially when a woman has no hang-ups about her body. If you want implants, do it for YOU, because it is what YOU want. If you put your self worth in other's hands, you will never be happy.
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posted: 02/26/11 at 8:31 PM
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Pickles, I take it you're a gal with big breasts, right? Have you ever had a guy tell you that big breasts are unfemenine, that you look like a guy, and that no man will ever want big breasts over small? Have you been bombarded by ads of women with small breasts, with ads for reduction surgery or for reduction pills? Why do you think men always joke about reductions being like "a slap to God's face"?
Of course it's hard for you to see it from this perspective, and yeah, it sucks that sometimes another sector of the population is put down to reassure another, but when small breasts are constantly put down day in and day out, by both men and women, be it in the media or in real life, teenagers or old people, it gets old. One thread and a few comments against big breasts WILL NEVER end the notion that the media and men have that bigger is better.
Sorry for the rant, but you just don't understand. It's very easy to just tell me to shut up and be confident, but in practice it's really hard.
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posted: 02/26/11 at 8:52 PM
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quote:
Originally posted by pickles
Whenever these types of topics come up, it really irks me when other types of women (or in this case, women's breasts) are put down in order to make the OP to feel better about herself.
If you put your self worth in other's hands, you will never be happy.
I totally agree.
However, it can be hard not to resent when someone has something out of pure luck that you can't have for the same reason. People lash out sometimes without understanding the reasons or consequences.
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