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Better as you get older??? posted: 12/21/10 at 2:06 PM
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posted: 12/22/10 at 1:20 AM
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I think it is more about attitude and experience rather than age.
True that younger people may be able to (and want to) have sex more often but quality of sex is not just about how often you do it.

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posted: 12/22/10 at 12:30 PM

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Sex gets better as you learn about yourself, and also acknowledging the importance of communication along with finding a partner who understands these same things. This does come with age. However, just because a person gets older, doesn't mean he or she gets better at sex, or that they have better sex. Make sense?

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posted: 12/22/10 at 12:31 PM

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For me, it got better at the age of 26. That is when I had the right partner and for the first time, I had an orgasm. Intense one. Not to mention multiples.
Pushing 40, it has gotten better due to experience and being more open and willing to try new things.....as for the does it feel better. YES. I'm more in touch with my body. (pun intended) Not to mention, I'm able to relax a bit more.

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posted: 12/22/10 at 12:59 PM

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I agree with our resident nut job. That's how I feel as well.

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posted: 12/22/10 at 3:45 PM

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LMAO CT. Thanks for the honorable mention.

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posted: 12/22/10 at 9:51 PM

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Anytime - I do find your series of avatars to be quite funny.

But yeah, I find too that as I get older I am more confident and secure in my sexual desires (esp after everything I've learned in LYC). So when I hook up with a new partner and we have the talk, I like to discuss these prefs upfront to ensure we are both ok with our likes and dislikes. I found this approach worked very well the last time and I intend to try it again.

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posted: 01/02/11 at 10:13 PM

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For me, sex got better as I got older because the girls kept getting younger. LOL! Aside from that, yes, it also got better as I got older because I learned control. Sex with the 18-25 year old version of me lasted 15 seconds and must have been a tremendous disappointment to all the ladies involved. After that I started to get some control over myself and could actually last long enough for the ladies to enjoy it. Now, some nights I can flip a switch, and either give Shaina the hot 2 minute session or the romantic one-hour plus session. Definitely better with age.

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posted: 01/03/11 at 6:27 PM

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I peaked at 28. Those were fun days!!

Since then, my sex drive has lessened a bit, but the quality of my orgasms haven't changed at all. I've always been quite comfortable with my body, and since I've been masturbating and experimenting with toys and such on my own since age 12, I know quite well how my body works.

For anyone wanting to improve their sexual response, I'd definitely recommend that.

And of course, communication with your partner. If you have trouble talking about sex or explaining your needs you won't have a very satisfactory experience.

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posted: 01/03/11 at 8:39 PM

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I'm 28. Between learning about myself on my own, having a great lover who encouraged communication and exploration, and forums like this that encourage candid discussions on every single topic imaginable, I can't imagine it NOT getting better with each year.

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