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What happened?? Unhappy posted: 04/21/10 at 11:32 AM

Denisse810  [more]
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Hello. I used to date this guy as FWB for 5 months. When we were friends with beneffits, the sex was awesome. We did it very often, an every time there were fireworks, it was really good sex...

But then, he asked me to be his girlfriend. I was happy because he is taking the relationship very seriously, he is very commited, he calls me every day, talks about the future, try me to hang out with his family, he is exclusive.. but the problem is since then the sex faded!... We do it like every 15 days, and sometimes when I want to do it, he falls asleep or say he is tired. I don't know if is because he's been very stressful lately because he is studying very hard for an important degree or is because he's not attracted to me anymore or what??

The weird thing is that he seems very committed and cares about me, but I don't know if it was better when we were FWB.. Is this normal if we just have 2 months in our relationship??

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posted: 04/21/10 at 7:19 PM

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It's no longer about sex anymore since you and him have taken things to a different level. Back then, all he had to worry about was sex. Things are different now.

Stress and being tired all the time does take a toll on someone's drive.
I can vouch for that these last couple of weeks and that's coming from a woman who's drive is very healthy. Lucky for me, I have a partner who's very understanding about it.

All you can do is talk to him. Tell him how you feel. Let him know that you want to be intimate with him more often. Ask if there he can meet you half way.
If he's stressed out, try to help him relax a bit more.
With massages or doing things that don't involve too much stress.

~Love is a cycle. When you love, you get hurt. When you get hurt, you hate.
When you hate, you try to forget.
When you try to forget, you start missing.
When you start missing, you eventually will fall in love again~

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