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How do you get a BJ from your wife? posted: 08/23/09 at 5:34 AM

disarray0721  [more]
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so, i'm a disaster...

how do you ask your wife for a bj?

"she should just want to do it", "let it be spontaneous", "I do it everyday", "don't ask and just be nice to her." These are all answers that do not help me.

regardless, ya'll are going to answer however you want, so what's your answer?

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posted: 08/23/09 at 10:01 AM
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my husband says its a trick question there is no correct answer. he also says that a ring on the finger is the end of b/j's.
however he is wrong,i do b/j's and weve been together for 11yrs.

i would just ask her,or perhaps hint around to it?
is she not into them or what?

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posted: 08/23/09 at 10:29 AM

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Ask. That's all I can suggest. I can tell you grabbing her head and smashing it on your crotch is NOT an option. LOL *Just thought I'd make that one clear*
Ask her what sexual act would you like to have explored? What would you like for me to do with you tonight?
Next time, Now ask me?

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posted: 08/23/09 at 7:28 PM

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It might sound simple but I simply say..."do you want to give me a BJ?"

The answer is going to be yes or no....and there's nothing beyond that I say if she says no.

Has she ever given a BJ before? Is it something you two have discussed yet?

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posted: 08/23/09 at 10:10 PM

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Last time I had to ask for it, I motioned down to my crotch, and said, "My friend would like some kisses too."

Be creative, have fun, and don't pressure her.

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posted: 08/24/09 at 1:08 AM

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Some women do not like giving oral to their men. I don't know why...but alot of them don't like to be asked.

I would talk to her about how she feels about this.
Maybe she's just not into it. If she has done this in the past, I would let her know how much you enjoy it. I would tell her that it's not expected from her, but when she does it, you like it and wish she could do it more often. If she's not into it or doesn't like doing it...then try to figure out why and see if there can be some changed made to help both of you.

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posted: 08/24/09 at 1:22 AM

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Ask her if she'd like to give u one and don't force her or plead her if she says NO once. Leave it at that.

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posted: 08/24/09 at 2:36 AM

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HellYa pretty much said what I was going to. SO has never given me oral but I do it to him plenty. When I asked why, he said he just doesn't like doing it. It's up to me then to decide how important it is to me and leave it alone. I'd suggest the same for your wife. Ask once, then leave it alone.

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posted: 08/25/09 at 11:32 AM

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LOL ... from my experience, once you are married, you don't ...

1. ever get oral sex.
2. ever get ANY kind of sex.
3. ever get any affection.

If you want any of these things, you should have stayed single. Sex is a trap women use to trap men. Once you are married, they have no reason for it.

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posted: 08/25/09 at 12:28 PM

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Let her know that it is something you would like and then leave it up to her. Hopefully her love for you will motivate her to take care of your needs or desires.

I would add that it also helps to be interested in her needs and desires and to fulfill them as best you can.

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