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How easily are guys aroused? posted: 06/18/09 at 12:59 AM

ImABarbieGrl  [more]
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I know of course it is normal for a guy to wake up with "morning wood". Does anyone know why this is? Is it possibly due to dreams or just happens?

Plus guys do you find yourself getting aroused randomly and unsure why? Is it thoughts that pop in your head or memories of other sexual experiences? Do you guy aroused by a women that you don't find sexually attractive?

This is actually purely curiosity as I know there is high mutual attraction of me and my current guy I'm dating!!

There is a good chance there is a post on this somewhere....just at work, bored and this crossed my mind! Plus I was just thinking about it and for me to get aroused or wet....it is ONLY with someone I am very attracted to and if there is attraction both physical AND emotional whoa baby surely more arousal due to the emotinal aspect! lol But yet a guy is either hard or he isn't? Well I suppose that isn't fully true I have noticed if a guy is "really" hard or just well hard but not on the extreme side? I now for women they can become either kinda wet or REALLY wet so in correction from my original post I guess it does kind of hold true for both males & females....

Can’t wait to hear your thoughts on this guys!!

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posted: 06/18/09 at 3:55 AM

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As for morning wood, I am 54 and almost always have one. It can wake me up in the middle of the night. It has nothing to do with dreaming. As men age, it is a welcome sight to see that everything is working just fine!!

As a teenager, I remember getting an erection at the worst times for no reason at all. Like being called to the board with one. You are sure everyone can see!!

Here is a good article:

http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/2526.html

Now, about how easily I am aroused?? When I see my hot wife in a pair of short-shorts or a mini-skirt, or see her come out of the dressing room while trying on a bathing suit at a department store, or snuggling up to her naked body...that will do it for me!!!

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posted: 06/18/09 at 8:57 AM

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Morning wood is really just a physical response to testosterone levels being highest in the morning.

Yes we guys generally get aroused very easily and by the simplest things. The emotional component is far less important. But personally I do not get aroused by things that are unattractive.

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posted: 06/18/09 at 6:03 PM

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I'm a woman and I find myself getting aroused for no particular reason sometimes too, and I''ll find myself thinking "where did that come from?" haha.

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posted: 06/18/09 at 9:35 PM

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Morning wood is a little more than just the physical response to peak tesosterone levels during night time slumber; these erections are also believed to be associated with REM (rapid eye movement), as well as the bodies way of keeping things in working order. The wood you wake up to is usually the last out of a series of several erections throughout the night, so a man doesn't stay hard all night once an erection is achieved. They are also the result of a state of deep relaxation. I meditate, and take naps when I get a chance, and I have noticed that I will get an erection during these times without any sexual thoughts whatsoever. However, once I have an erection, the sexual thoughts start flowing, sustaining the woody.

I do not get aroused by women that I don't find attractive, unless she does something I do find attractive. Random erections throughout the day are usually the result of sexual thoughts derived from my own imagination, or looking at some random girl I would really like to have sex with. When I am with my girlfriend, I get erections all the freakin time, especially when physical affection is at play.

Oh, and guys do get semi-erections where they are not quite fully erect, but also not completely flaccid. Those are perfectly normal, unless a half erection is the maximum a guy can achieve. That's a big problem.

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posted: 06/19/09 at 11:46 PM
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I agree with Bleedinghart. Someone else said that erections have nothing to do with dreams but I read where that you do get them during a dream, and the dream doesn't have to have anything to do with sex.

Rarely, for no apparent reason, I'll get an erection during the day. Then I do start thinking sexual thoughts and eventually have to take care of things.

AT my age, I seldom get a woodie just from seeing a sexy gal walking around like I used to, but the desire is still there :-)

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posted: 07/05/09 at 5:49 AM

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Yeah, I get aroused randomly and I also wake up with morning wood. As a matter of fact I woke up 45 minutes ago with morning wood and while I'm typing this, it still hasn't gone away yet.

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posted: 07/06/09 at 12:23 PM

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I like to call those N.A.R.B's (No Apparent Reason Bonner) It happens to be all the time. My wife can reach over while I am driving and hold my hand and I will get hard. But that goes to say sometimes I thought I was weird because I am always hard.

My wife tells me all the time, I will never have to worry about having to take Viagra. Sometimes she gets upset because she thinks everytime I have a boner I want to have sex. Most of the time I do, but not always.

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posted: 07/28/09 at 3:40 AM

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I think I am constantly in a state of arousal. I can get an erection so easily that sometimes it drives me crazy. I text my wife sometimes when I get one of those NARB's and she texts back with a smiley face!

By the way I like that term NARB's.

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posted: 07/28/09 at 5:03 AM

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May I ask what does NARB's stand for? Maybe I am thinking to much, but no clue what it stands for! Have an idea of what it is about, but thats it! lol

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Never take anyone for granted cause you never know when you might lose them as you will not get that chance to let them know your True Feelings.


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