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posted: 09/27/08 at 11:13 PM
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[[I am having trouble making rent this month.]]
That right there would be enough to make me stop. Psychics are not cheap, nor are they free. I would far rather spend that money on things like tickets to meet, visits, presents, etc.
The LDR gang here will not get down on you. We do have lots of advice though, so you're in good company 
From my perspective since you've only been in this LDR barely 3 months, it's still very early. Don't assume anything at this point. Take it slow, a lot of these early-on-great-guys can end up being liars. I'm not saying yours is, but be wary until more time has passed.
Blessings,
Poetman
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Rodger Swan 12/19/1986-1/26/2010 Gone too soon, remembered forever. R.I.P my friend.
You have everything that I have to give; it is the only way that Love truly exists. You and I are each One, and we are both One~E
I cannot be accurately judged by the meat and bone wrapped around me - its features were not my choice.~E
I Love you. Love Me as I Love you, you are Me. you are not me; only here are we we, separate rather than Me, One.~E
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posted: 09/28/08 at 1:27 AM
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I had a 15 year marriage where my ex was emotionally and psychologically abusive. It took several years of counseling before I boosted my self esteem to the point of saying "Enough!" There's a lot more to it, but the minute I made the break and moved out with our youngest (the oldest wanted to stay and finish high school), I felt *such* a sense freedom and relief!
Part of the healing was from a guy who treated me well, made me feel like a million~in the end, he turned out to be a liar, cheat, alcoholic, drug addict and bisexual (the last wasn't a problem for me). So, I learned that men who seem great online can be very skilled at painting what you want so bad to believe~that THAT man can rescue you from loneliness, heartache and pain, when the only one who can REALLY do that is YOU. I found my way here when he broke up with me~the day before Valentine's a few years back.
Blessings, and welcome to LYC
Poetman
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Rodger Swan 12/19/1986-1/26/2010 Gone too soon, remembered forever. R.I.P my friend.
You have everything that I have to give; it is the only way that Love truly exists. You and I are each One, and we are both One~E
I cannot be accurately judged by the meat and bone wrapped around me - its features were not my choice.~E
I Love you. Love Me as I Love you, you are Me. you are not me; only here are we we, separate rather than Me, One.~E
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posted: 09/28/08 at 2:38 AM
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Honestly, I'd say *most* guys are nice
That said, there are some bad apples in the basket that make the majority of us seem under suspicion. Just keep in mind that if what he *says* doesn't add up to what he *does* then it may be time to move on. When a guy is truly interested in you, his actions will back up his words.
Incidentally~if you are calling psychics about your guy at this stage, I'd say that's your gut telling you "Caution!" and you're hoping the psychics can put that feeling to rest.
Best of luck!
Poetman
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Rodger Swan 12/19/1986-1/26/2010 Gone too soon, remembered forever. R.I.P my friend.
You have everything that I have to give; it is the only way that Love truly exists. You and I are each One, and we are both One~E
I cannot be accurately judged by the meat and bone wrapped around me - its features were not my choice.~E
I Love you. Love Me as I Love you, you are Me. you are not me; only here are we we, separate rather than Me, One.~E
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posted: 09/29/08 at 7:11 AM
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Sounds like things are coming right along
Glad to hear you quit calling the psychics. You can see for yourself how things are going. I long for the day I have an SO and we talk on Skype. That will be the day indeed!!
Enjoy to the Max!!
Poetman
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Rodger Swan 12/19/1986-1/26/2010 Gone too soon, remembered forever. R.I.P my friend.
You have everything that I have to give; it is the only way that Love truly exists. You and I are each One, and we are both One~E
I cannot be accurately judged by the meat and bone wrapped around me - its features were not my choice.~E
I Love you. Love Me as I Love you, you are Me. you are not me; only here are we we, separate rather than Me, One.~E
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