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Genital Beading/Pearling! Question posted: 07/29/08 at 11:55 PM

elishao  [more]
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Hello everybody,

Two years ago i was dating this guy for 6 months...then he had to come back to his homeland and the situation got very complicated and uncertain, so we decided not to waste each others time and let one another go because we didnt know if he can ever come back. During those two years i had a few short term relationships. Recently, that guys from two years ago came into my picture again and we're so happy to have each other back again!
Anyways,the problem is... this guy has genital beading. He's done it when he was 18,now he's 31. Every time after we have sex i have very minor spotting. I was so scared back then and went to a doctor. They run some tests and didnt find anything. I never mentioned to the doctor about his beading thou. After the guy went back to his homeland and I started dating other people and it never happened to me again.No any kind of spotting in two years!Now,when he's back,we're having sex again and it's happening to me again!The spotting is back!

So,what i was thinking...can it be from the beading on his penis?Can it cause the spotting??? I mentioned it to him but he keeps saying "How do you know it's from beading?" I dont wanna say something like "Well,with OTHER guys it's never happened!Only with you!" I dont think ANY guy wants to hear something like that. But im really puzzled...and kinda scared...what if does happen from beading...is it dangerous for my health then?I dont feel any pain during sex. He says the beading gives him extra pleasure. What if it comes to the point where i will have to ask him to remove it...but what if the things wont work out for us in a long run,then he will HATE me for asking him to remove it. LOL i dont know what to think or do.

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posted: 07/30/08 at 12:23 AM

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Im sorry for confusing you. I'll explain...

Beading, also known as pearling is the implantation of small beads and other small objects under the skin.Most simple implants are made of small inert metal beads (stainless steel, titanium, and niobium), as well as various plastic beads (nylon, teflon, silicone, etc.). Most often beading is done on the penis, but it can be done anywhere on the body. Genitally, these are done primarily for the purpose of physical stimulation. Because of the nature of the skin on the penis, the bead may move around during sexual intercourse.

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posted: 08/10/08 at 3:20 PM

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I just did a search on genital beading and saw some pictures and all I can say is OUCH!

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posted: 08/27/08 at 8:23 AM

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Well, as long as you are honest with him that you have slept with other men in that time, you ought to be able to tell him how you are so sure it is from the beading. I would recommend getting a toy that has similar size bumps on it to see if playing with that has the same effect.

Now, what are the chances that the blood is not yours? That it has come from him? Are you using condoms?

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posted: 09/02/08 at 6:14 AM

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Okay my dear,

It could either be 'break through bleeding' from his embeding or it could be friction irritation to the linning of your vagina, these are the two most common casues for this. I would strongly suggest a thick lubricant for sex and a medical examination for you for injury, and him to make sure he healed correctly.

Hope this helps,

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