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Sex with Male Virgin Lightbulb posted: 02/23/08 at 1:50 AM

jenny0619  [more]
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I've never had sex with a man who was a virgin. Has anyone had this experience of teaching or anything that can shed some light on the overall sexual experience with one.

I'm asking about this because I'm 23 and thinking of courting an 18 year old guy that I'm friends with (only thoughts, though), and I'm curious as to what it's like with a virgin.

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posted: 02/23/08 at 2:11 AM

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I am 24, and my SO is 22. He was a virgin before me. The first couple times we tried to have sex he had a difficult time reaching his orgasm due to nervousness (The first time we were going at it for 3 hours and nothing, I had to leave him with blue balls). But after that we've been fine.

I'm pretty lucky though because I didn't really have to teach him anything. He missed the entrance once or twice, but other than that he's great. Also he's willing to try different things (for the most part). I still have trouble getting him to orgasm by me going down on him though.

I guess my advice would be to have patience with him if he doesn't perform the way you expect him to. He may be nervous the first couple times and if you have too high expectations you'll be left disappointed.

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posted: 02/23/08 at 2:39 AM

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i had sex with a male virgin (looooong time ago) he had no idea, but i taught him all i knew......now his future wife will thank me!

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posted: 02/23/08 at 12:22 PM

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my ex was a virgin and so i was and still am. we didnt have sex but he was so inexperienced in bed. I cant remember a single time when i was actually pleasured. I didnt even feel anything when he gave me oral!

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posted: 02/23/08 at 11:13 PM

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Not everyone will agree with me of course, but I say nail the guy you're courting. Both of you are steaming with compatible curiosities, so the sooner, the better.

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posted: 02/24/08 at 1:29 AM

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Yeah, I agree. Have sex with him before having a relationship. That sure will make him respect you..

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posted: 02/24/08 at 5:40 AM

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...or you can utilize sarcasm. That will certainly make people respect you.

Not everyone abides by your "sex while only in a serious relationship" philosophy Laguna. And if a woman just wants to get in a guys pants, she can care less about how much he is going to respect her after the deed is done since she will more than likely have no plans on contacting him in the future. Unless it is for another booty call.

Here is the more elaborate version of my advice. But after everything is all said, the message I'm saying will remain the same with an addition I should not have left out of my previous post.

The OP is 23, and the guy she's interested in having sex with is 18. The chances of a long term relationship developing out of this are nil to slim. The OP has mentioned nothing of the sort towards having a desire to date this guy long-term. However, she did mention her curiosity about sleeping with a male virgin. This is what matters, it is the topic to her thread after all. This is the advice she is seeking.

The only thing I frown upon, is that she also considers this guy a friend. But we don't know how good of friends they are. It is not a safe assumption to make since the OP has not mentioned this either. Once again, I am only going off the information she has provided.

The only assumption I have made is that the guy in this scenario is also curious what it is like to have sex. But it is a pretty safe assumption to make that a 18 year-old male virgin is curious about sex. But I could be wrong, no doubts there, just not likely.

The OP has a curiosity, and from my experience these things don't just roll up and vanish. Anytime a guy mentions that he is a virgin, her eyes will light up. If this is a curiosity that she would like to explore, then everything comes second to her personal responsibility (use protection please) and that curiosity. She WILL eventually go through with it, and this type of sex does not and should not require emotional attachment.

The rarity of male virgins is another reason why I advise what I do. They are not necessarily plentiful if you know what I mean.

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posted: 02/24/08 at 2:32 PM
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This thread is making me wonder whether there are any women out there with an attraction to male virgins. Is there such a thing as a virgin fetish among women?

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posted: 02/24/08 at 2:59 PM
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I would think that Male virgins are not that attractive since they don't know what they're doing and need to be taught and are nervous?

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posted: 02/25/08 at 10:49 AM
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Okay, virgin guys can't offer experience... but I would think they do have some positives to offer.

I mean, they're safe, and I would think there'd be no more appreciative partner. And I would think many women would enjoy having a clean, untouched guy who didn't have umpteen other women's fingerprints all over him.

And if they do need to be taught, might that not be fun in some ways? I mean, wouldn't a woman sort of enjoy having an eager student they could mold to their own preferences?

Gee, when I think about the selling points, I'm sort of surprised that women everywhere aren't out prowling for virgin men. :-)

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