I was hoping someone could give me some ideas and help.
In a few weeks it's my anniversary with my bf and then a week later is his birthday. He's been asking for a lap dance for a while now, but I always seem to chicken out, but I now would like to do it for him, anyways my question is:
Does anyone know specific songs that are good, and also clothing, what would be good for that. If I can make it that would be great! Also any tips without having to go to a stripclub or buy a video would be wonderful.
If your looking for something sexy that they wear at strip clubs, check out ebay they have hot items on there, just make sure it says new lol. But really I have bought them on there and they are nice priced and my guy likes the surprises.
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i am right there with you ..... my man would love for me to give him a lap dance but i dont know i almost feel imtimidated bc i dont know what to do and i am afraid i will do something stupid or wont do something right and i chicken out....
MrsJ - I am with you there. In a very similar position in fact. I was really put off 'cos my fiance had been around strip clubs a lot in his past because he had a relationship with a stripper. I am so scared that I will mess it up and look silly so I just made all the excuses, sometimes just resorting to being a ***** to get around it....
No more though. I am already working on my first routine and I totally plan to execute it sooner rather than later.
The thing to remember is that your SO is used to seeing girls do it for anyone and everyone. He is not used to someone who has only even done it for him and that is gonna turn him on more than any "professional" dancer ever could. I know that my fiance utterly adores me and that just me doing this for him is such a turn on that I cannot possibly go wrong. That doesn't mean I am not going to practice it out and try and blow his mind when I do it though.
I think I am going to feel really empowered when I have done it the first time and it will help me with a few of my own inhibitions.
Its so good to know there are others just like me out there - please MrsJ - let me know how you get on and I will let you how get on too.
There is nothing I want more than the searing heat I felt with you before.