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My girl gets really tired after having a few orgasms. posted: 06/20/07 at 3:39 AM
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When going down on my girlfriend, after 3 or 4 orgasms, she is completely worn out. Her hands are tired from gripping a pillow really tight, or holding onto my hands; she's given me bruises before. She usually only lets me go down on her for 20-30 minutes at a time, whereas I want to do it for like an hour.

Is there anything I can do to help her be more relaxed after or during? Is there something she can do to keep from getting totally tired after? She does tend to forget to breathe during it. Maybe that could have something to do with it. Any good advice would help.

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posted: 06/20/07 at 3:54 AM

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If this is the biggest problem you have you are very, very lucky. I don't know what to tell you because I'm not sure what the actual problem is. Is she too tired after oral to have intercourse? Is she causing herself some sort of medical problem from overexertion?

If it's just that you want to do oral longer than she wants you to, I think her opinion wins.

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posted: 06/20/07 at 4:07 AM
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We can always have sex after which we usually do. And It just takes a lot out of her basically. No medical problem, her hands just really hurt after.

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posted: 06/20/07 at 10:23 AM
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Alright, I'm gonna keep her from having an orgasm for longer now. She's gonna hate me though.

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posted: 06/23/07 at 12:16 PM
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Alright, I'm gonna keep her from having an orgasm for longer now. She's gonna hate me though.


I did the rise and fall method for too long once. It killed the mood and nothing happened afterwards. If you are going to do it, I suggest letting her rise and fall about 3 times.
I do it to my girl, when she is stressed out and wants me to jump her bones. I go with (might sound like exercises) 2 sets of 3 reps. Then I will jump her bones. I will go at a steady pace until she starts controlling the pace and we go faster.
I have gone a marathon of oral with her before we go to having sex. Just listen to her, if she is tired, or sore, you have to go easy.

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posted: 04/13/11 at 6:29 AM
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Both of you guys suppose to be enjoying sex all the time NOT just you, if she gets tired of oral is time for you to change what you are doing.
How would you feel if she gives you a blow job for 1 hour? Wouldn't your penis get tired and maybe numb, if you are a normal person of course you will get tired.
You shouldn't be giving her orgasms by oral sex only.... specially when is so easy to give her multiple full body orgasms with penetration.
Doing the same thing for a long period of time is tiring and boring, if you really enjoy giving oral sex for hours you should start with foreplay first, then go down on her for 20-30 minutes, take a break and do intercourse for 15-20 minutes, do some foreplay one more time, and then go back to oral once again for 20-30 minutes, do all these different things so she won't get tired of doing the same thing for long periods of time.

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