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impregnation fetish? posted: 05/14/07 at 4:40 AM
Tea4soul  [more]
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I've heard males and females can have this sort of fetish. When a man or woman is aroused at the thought of getting pregnant during unprotected sex or the possibility of it happening. I have also heard about a pregnancy fetish where the man is aroused at the sight of a pregnant female. However, someone with an impregnation fetish is not the same as someone with a pregnancy fetish because they are not aroused by the pregnant female but the action of getting someone pregnant. If that makes sense. Lately, I think my boyfriend has got one of these or both, not really sure. When we make love and he's about to come he would whisper in a ragged voice something along the lines of "oh god, i want to get you pregant so bad". Or other times while I'm washing dishes he would come up behind me, wrap his arms around my waist and say "sweetie you were meant to have my babies". I am on the pill so the chances of that happening are slim. He's always talking about getting me pregnant and how great I would look when I'm carrying his child. And at one point I caught him tossing out my birth control pills. That's what made want to look it up. He says it often....more like alot. I'm not sure if it's a fetish or just a deep desire to have kids. I want kids also, someday, but I don't feel as ready as he does that I would make a good mother. He has apologized and said he didn't know what he was thinking but that he was extremely sorry and that behavior would never happen again, which it hasn't. I was just wondering has anyone heard of this or has this kind of fetish also? How far does this go?

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posted: 05/14/07 at 4:44 AM

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I dont think it is so much a fetish as it is he is ready to have children before you. I would just explain to him that you are not ready to have children, that you still have life goals to achieve, and you want to be married and settled into married life before having a child.

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Re: impregnation fetish? posted: 05/14/07 at 5:55 AM

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And at one point I caught him tossing out my birth control pills...He has apologized and said he didn't know what he was thinking but that he was extremely sorry and that behavior would never happen again, which it hasn't.

OMG, OMG, OMG!!! I know he apologized, but that is more than just a momentary screw up; that to me seems like a major lack of respect and breach of trust. Hopefully he's sincere and has figured out not only that what he did was wrong, but why. And I'd hide my pills if I were you.

You need to have a frank discussion and maybe set some sort of timetable as far as when you might want kids and what you want to accomplish before that happens. If it bothers you or makes you feel pressured that he makes these comments, you need to stand up for yourself and let him know that you've got the picture and he doesn't need to constantly harp on about having kids. Fetish or not, he's trying to push you into something you're not ready for.

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posted: 05/14/07 at 6:08 AM

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Maybe hes just really in love with you...Sometimes in the heat of the moment you say stuff like that...But it goes beyond that with your situation, I think, because it sounds more like hes trying to push you into stuff you dont want yet, like the above poster said. And if hes trying to throw out your BC pills then thats definitly not good. I would talk to him and just say you arent ready yet, but that when you are, you'll let him know.

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posted: 05/14/07 at 6:22 AM

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I disagree with TomBoy and sailor for this thread, and I agree with all of the others. This is NOT a "fetish" -- this is natural human desire. He obviously loves you and wants you to bear his children. Nothing wrong with this. If you're not ready, well then the two of you need to simply discuss this amongst yourselves. There's very little any of us here can do since this matter is between the two of you and you will have to come up with a solution to this, together.

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posted: 05/14/07 at 6:36 AM
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I do agree with some of the posts here. Maybe I did take the birth control incident lightly. However, I know him, and I still do trust him. We had a talk after that and he did tone down. I also should mention that he looks at pregnancy magazines and I've seen him get hard just from looking at them. I'm still riding on the fetish idea.

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posted: 05/14/07 at 6:41 AM

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His desire to have children is human nature. The fact that he gets hard looking at pregnancy magazines says that pregnant women turn him on. The two are not connected in any way, shape, or form.

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posted: 05/14/07 at 11:07 AM

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I disagree with TomBoy and sailor for this thread, and I agree with all of the others. This is NOT a "fetish" -- this is natural human desire.

I didn't say it was a fetish. I said "fetish or not..." That means I don't know whether it could be considered a fetish or not. And of course reproducing is a natural human desire. But so is eating and people have disorders involving food all the time. It's the pill incident that makes me think there may be a problem, not just the expression of desire for a child.



Oh, I just read about the preggers magazine thing. Are you sure he really wants a child and isn't just wanting you to be pregnant? It could certainly be both, but I'd be a bit concerned if he's more interested in the pregnancy part than in the child-raising part.

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posted: 05/15/07 at 8:45 PM
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Isnt it a sort of desire to everyone to have unprotected sex so its like raw feeling of 2 bodes coming together a deeper connection...if you get me?

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posted: 05/16/07 at 8:50 AM

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OK, so I'm not sure if this is a fetish, but it certainly applies to me lately. Before I got married, I had no interest in being a father, and saw nothing sexy about pregnant women. To this day pregnant porn does nothing for me, and in a lot of cases, it actually turns me OFF.

However, in the last 15 months, I have turned into a lunatic about my wife being pregnant. I have no doubt that she will be beautiful pregnant, that she was made to carry my children. It is my new number one fantasy - in fact, last nights incredible phone sex revolved around me BEGGING her to get off the pill so I can get her pregnant. Now I would never do anything like hide her birth control. That's just extreme. Shai and I have had long serious discussions on the subject of children, and while we are planning a family, we know that now isn't the right time. We have plans and goals, and have set a timetable for children which may or may not be set in stone. But it doesn't stop me from wanting it to the point that sometimes I think I'm going to explode.

I'm still trying to figure out what happened. Is there some unseen force inside my wife that triggers some inner male instinct to breed? Is Sailor right on the money and it's just a primitive biological drive? I just turned 34 the other day. Shai is so young and has a good number of years of fertility left, and sometimes I feel old and think my window might be closing. I never thought about it, but maybe my clock is ticking. If so, is that why this drive appeared only now with Shai and not with the other women I've dated? Or can I just have some weird fetish? I don't know what makes this situation different, but what I do know is that some nights I want to throw caution and self control to the wind and make a baby.

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