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Why do married men watch porn esp. lesbian porn? posted: 04/06/07 at 7:00 AM

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I found some lesbian porn on my boyfriends computer and when I confronted him about it he totally lied about watching it. He told me he wouldn't do it again but I keep finding porn on his computer. This just really makes me doubt his love and lust for me.

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Question posted: 04/06/07 at 7:44 AM

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Not really.....Some men are turned on by two women having sex and are embarassed when their women bust them watching it.If he still loves and lusts after you,then him watching porn on his computer is probably harmless.....Annoying but harmless.

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posted: 04/06/07 at 7:48 AM

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Well...what's better than one woman having sex?...TWO.

Aside from that...his lying is troubling. The porn doesn't mean he loves you less...but he should at least have the guts to admit it's his.

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posted: 04/06/07 at 8:39 AM

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It's his computer. How bout you keep your hands off it ya snoop.

Don't ask if you don't want to know is how I see it.

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posted: 04/06/07 at 9:38 AM

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Porn isn't really an issue unless it gets in the way of having a relationship. Even then, you need to decide who is making it a problem.

This is the way it usually goes...

A. Woman "discovers" something she wasn't supposed to find (translation: snooping around).

B. Woman make assumptions about what it means.

C. Woman confronts man.

D. Man acquiesces because he doesn't want it to make a big deal.

E. Woman "discovers" more when she searches again.

F. Woman accuses man of lying.

G. Lying becomes the new "issue."

Confrontation isn't conducive to having a relationship. You're supposed to discuss and negotiate the things you want. And discussions are a two-way street.

If people would learn to deal with their issues in a mature manner, other people wouldn't need to appease them by lying.

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posted: 04/06/07 at 9:44 AM

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Haha, no, I was not snooping. I always use him computer to do homework. I save my files in 'my documents' and it just so happened he saves his files there too. Yeah I do which I never found it but it was a stupid accident =/

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posted: 04/06/07 at 10:42 AM
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There is no connection between the two.

If he loves you and lusts for you, appreciate it. If you would rather he cheat on you, keep snoopin' and naggin'.

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posted: 04/06/07 at 10:51 AM
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That was a little harsh and I apologize. As a guy I just know that porn has nothing to do with cheating.
I worship my wife, she is my best friend
She knows I love her
She knows I occasionally look at porn
She is OK with it
----- as would I if she derived pleasure from it
Its just one of the many reasons I love her

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posted: 04/06/07 at 10:56 AM

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Thanks.

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