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Any couples ever watch others have sex in real life? posted: 01/29/07 at 8:30 AM
deandisco  [more]
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Having been in a wonderful and communicative marriage for nearly 25 yrs, my wife and I have tried practically every thing {almost to the point of boredom} outside of swinging, a threesome and you guessed it, watching others have sex in real life.

Neither of us care to swing and she's not keen to have a threesome {which I don't blame her} but, we both agree that watching strangers have sex would be a huge turn-on {hell, it turns us on just talking about it}. And if we could figure out how to do this discreetly {no name exchange & in disguise}, and be able to have sex with each other right after watching and in private, I think it could be a possibility.

Any one here tried this? How did it go? How did you go about this? Where were you {motel, house, etc}? Are there clubs where you can do this?

Looking forward to the replies.

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posted: 01/29/07 at 10:02 AM
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Hello Deandisco,

LOL! Not this couple though I'm sure others have.

I commend you and your wife for not wanting to get into a threesome. Though years ago it was a fantasy of ours, there is just too much risk, especially today with STDs, etc. And more importantly too much risk to your relationship.

You could rent an adult video, but that would hardly be like seeing the real action. In some countries there is on stage intercourse.

There are live adult sex cams. Go to Google and type in "watching live sex". Then click on "Is Live Sex On-Demand Coming to hotel TVs - New york Times. And the list goes on.

I'll be curious to read the responses of others.

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posted: 01/29/07 at 10:43 AM
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Hello RichT,

I had thought of the live sex cams and though it wouldn't be anywhere close to the real thing, it might be fun to try.

As for the threesome, I'd love to have one {another woman} but realistically, besides my wife not being thrilled with the idea, I don't think it would be a wise tree to bark up for us for the same reasons you mentioned.

But back on subject, we do watch adult videos and have for 15+ yrs. The first time we watched one together, we didn't get in to it for more than 5 minutes before my wife was on fire. Unfortunately, they just don't excite us the same any more. In fact, that's how this topic has come up between us, having sex while watching porno.

I'm thinking this is a fantasy that could become reality with no ramifications. I'm just not sure how to go about it.

Thanks.

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posted: 01/29/07 at 11:23 AM

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Possibly a swingers club, you could watch and if you want and have others watch you but not join in

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posted: 01/29/07 at 9:30 PM
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Hello Deandisco,

Talking about adudlt videos not exciting you much any more - Sure the initial videos may have turned both of you on, however, today's videos (at least most of them) are just so boring. There is NO show of intimate feelings. Just bam slam how fast can we get this over with. Hardly a turn on. And what amazes me is the vast majority don't even get into (or show) the lovin' positions that my wife and I have enjoyed. At least one would think they could fake it. When is the last time you saw a video where the woman had an orgasm? Enough.

Deandisco, you and your wife may have done the following (most likely), but if not here is a thought that turns both of us on - I will buy an explicit adult magazine. Take a look through. Then at some time when we start our lovin' I'll give the magazine to my wife to look at and read. It is always amazing, as I can tell when she is looking at a photo or reading something in the magazine that is really turning her on. Of course while she is looking at the magazine I'll be fondling/kissing her breasts and lovin' up her clitoris.

Let us know how your search (half the fun) goes in experiencing seeing another couple having sex together.

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posted: 01/29/07 at 11:29 PM
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RichT,

With the adult mags, been there, done that as the old saying goes. The results were mild.

On to the videos, my wife seems to be in the minority from what I have read: she prefers the actual sex act {watching close up penetration}. In fact, she fast forwards through everything else. And over the yrs, we have built up a varied selection of videos from "intimate" to "bam slam".

BoosFla,

The club might be a possibility but we don't know enough about them. I do know that neither of us wants to be amoungst a large group and we surely don't want to have sex in front of others, for now at least {but that could be a possibility later}. I have in my mind meeting a couple in their hotel room, watching, then running across the hall to our own room, or something along those lines.

Thanks for the ideas and keep those posts coming, people. Surely there are people here who have experienced what I'm talking about. Lets hear about it.

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I never had intercourse with a girl while others watched, I did have a girl give me a BJ while my friend was driving.

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My lady and I went to the Green Door in Vegas, and watched couples go at it...Man was horny afterwards

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Never watched anyone else but one time we were staying with friends and they were going at it in the room next to where we were sleeping. This guy's wife was quite vocal and my wife got so turned on she practically raped me. Never, in 40 years, has she been that turned on.

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Idea for Dean posted: 02/01/07 at 3:15 AM
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Hey Dean:

Just a thought, but you might try videotaping you and you're wife having sex..then both of you watching that tape. It might light a spark since you would be the "Porn Stars" :-)
You may have already tried this, but it works for my wife and I !

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