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how to keep an email conversation going posted: 10/01/06 at 7:44 AM
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There's this guy that i was in a show with back in July that I have a major crush on. After the show finished we were emailing each other back and forth, mostly small talk, but it was nice. I felt we were starting to get to know each other. Most of the time it was me initiating the emails, but now he doesn't even respond. I don't know if I said or did something to cause him to want to blow me off. I really enjoyed getting to know him and wish we could continue to do so, but I'm not sure what to do next if anything. I'm afraid to ask him directly if I said or did something for fear that will freak him out. HELP!

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posted: 10/03/06 at 9:05 AM

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Most of the time it was me initiating the emails

So maybe you were more interested than he was?
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but now he doesn't even respond

Yeah, I guess he wasn't interested enough.

You email the guy. He emails you back. You email the guy. He emails you back. It doesn't mean he's interested. It's just good manners to return your messages.

So, you were the last one to email. It's his move. The ball's in his court now. I assume that more than the usual amount of time has past. Give him some more time to make his own move.

You want someone who's going to take at least some initiative in a relationship. You want to know for yourself that he's interested and not just being polite. And you're never going to know if he's interested in you unless you let him take the initiative.

If he never emails back, then he's not interested. Period. It's not you. You didn't do anything wrong. You're not ugly. You're not undesirable. He's not freaking out. He's not commitment-phobic. You're just not his type. Period.

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