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posted: 08/16/06 at 7:58 PM
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The only number that matters is the number you have had after getting married. that should be 1.
If someone has protected sex with 100 people 1 time each, is that any better or worse than having unprotected sex with 1 or 2 people any times? I would rather have a partner who had been out there and experienced other people and got the "player" out of her system rather than someone who has never had a sexual life and might get curious and cheat later on... after reading these forums ;-)
I know for me, I was DONE when I got married after having way over my fair share. And I have no desire to ever get out there again. If you don't think you can deal with the answer from a significant other, you probably shouldn't ask the question.
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posted: 08/22/06 at 5:35 PM
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| How many people you have sex with isn't an indication of morality. You could have 100 and still be more moral than your neighbor who's only had 1. I fall into the "4-8 sexual partners" catagory, and I don't think I'm more moral than the "over 14" crowd, nor do I think the person who's had only 1 is more moral than I.
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posted: 08/22/06 at 6:41 PM
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| I've had 6 partners in the 6 years i've been sexually active, 5 of which i had sex with. the other was just oral. the first 3 were in the first 4.5 years and the other 3 were in the past 1.5 years. i was in more serious relationships during those first 4.5 years, so the #'s stayed low. but once i was single and dating more the # started to rise more quickly. I wasn't trying to get with more people, but it would happen and then not far down the road i realized this wasn't the person for me. i have no regrets, just need to make sure i stay protected and on birth control.
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posted: 08/27/06 at 12:03 PM
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| I am 25 and have had 5 sexual partners, the last being my husband. He's been my only partner for the last... almost 3 years (we started before getting married). Not that I think 5 is a lot of people by any standards, 5 between the ages of 18 and 23 is pretty high, to me anyway. But to each his own. If I could take it back, though, I wouldn't... with 4 of them ;-)
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RE: is this true??? posted: 08/27/06 at 8:23 PM
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Deep question: Is the number of sexual partners connected to Morality? For me it is connected. Please understand I don’t judge people on morality that is simply your choice. I make a different one.
Definition: Morality refers to the concept of human ethics which pertains to matters of good and evil —also referred to as "right or wrong", used within three contexts: individual conscience, systems of principles and judgments — sometimes called moral values —shared within a cultural, religious, secular, Humanist, or philosophical community; and codes of behavior or conduct derived from these systems. Personal morality defines and distinguishes among right and wrong intentions, motivations or actions, as these have been learned, engendered, or otherwise developed within each individual.
Morality changes as time goes by so it’s hard for different generations to see things the same. I’m 47and I’ve had one sexual partner (after I put a ring on her finger). I'm currently single and if I find the right woman I might try again once more but other then that I will not be sexually active. That my choice. For me sex belongs in a loving long term relationship only and not at all any other time. That is my moral choice. I am a very sensual and sexual man but only with a woman I truly love. Not a woman I’ve just meet. Of course I get aroused by a pretty woman anywhere but the head on my shoulders controls the head in my pants. Thats my morality.
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posted: 08/29/06 at 10:22 PM
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I'm 20 and i've only been with one guy.
I would say I am a relatively late starter. I don't however believe in one night stands (I was talking about this the other night with my friend and she said she probably would consider it, which shocked me but hey it's her choice.)
I only want to sleep with someone I care for and who cares for me. Just my personal choice. I'm not saying that people who have slept with more than 1 person have had one night stands necessarily. What I mean is, being a shy gal, I've not got a lot of experience and confidence with men and as a result not had a lot of boyfriends.
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i wish we were still together though... and hes the only one i really enjoy it with!
