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lower abdominal pain after sex... what is it?!! posted: 07/24/06 at 11:45 AM

pinky0ne  [more]
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I just started having sex. We've done it 3 times. The first 2 times were fine and I felt no pain, just a bit of uncomfort when he first entered me.

The 3rd time, while we were well into the it, I felt a sharp, sudden pain inside. I clenched up and we stopped for a bit. It was just a jolt of pain and it seemed like he had hit something inside me.

The day after that incident, my the left side of my lower abdomen was hurting quite a bit, but it went away the day after that, so I wasn't really worried.

A week after all of this, we were fooling around again. We didn't have intercourse, just oral. At one point, he started to finger me (after I was already turned on and really wet) but it felt so uncomfortable! I almost anticipated pain. So he stopped that and just concentrated on pleasing me in other ways. Anyway, after I orgasmed, I started to feel the same pain in my lower left abdominal.... and now it's just got me a little worried.

I'm just wondering what you ladies have to say about this... Anyone experienced anything similar? Any idea as to why it may be happening or what it is that's causing the pain?

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posted: 07/24/06 at 11:49 AM

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sounds like he broke your hymen or hit your cervix. Either of those situtions are normal, but I strongly urge you to tell your doctor, because they can identify if there really are any problems.

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posted: 07/24/06 at 11:50 AM

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i have had this before i wonder if anyone can explain,not the next week pain though...

Personally i would make a visit to the doctor, get it all checked out.

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posted: 07/24/06 at 3:00 PM

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It could be anything...but you really should talk to your doctor about this. It could be something serious tho.

It could be and I am only it could be b/c I don't know for sure what is causing your pain.

You pulled a stomach muscle.

Your cervix can be dilating alittle bit. You don't have to be pregnant to have this happen. (I remember after a pelvic exam once I told my doctor that I felt some stomach pain and cramping...She told me that my cervix was probably dilating alittle bit from the exam)
I really don't think that is the problem tho. Because the pain should not be sharp.

Or perhaps it could be pelvic immflammorty disease. I dunno.

Again, you need to talk to your doctor.

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posted: 07/24/06 at 7:00 PM

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quote:
Originally posted by HellYaImNuts
Or perhaps it could be pelvic immflammorty disease. I dunno.


Symptoms of PID:

* Fever
* Vaginal discharge that may have an odor
* Painful intercourse
* Painful urination
* Irregular menstrual bleeding
* Pain in the upper right abdomen (rare)

I don't have any of those symptoms. Sex is not painful. (except for that one jolt of pain when it was as if he had hit something inside me) It's after sex when I felt the pain.

You guys really know how to scare a girl.

Don't you think it's a possibility that he just streched me a little?

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posted: 07/24/06 at 11:38 PM

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Oh, if its like he is hitting something in the back during sex, yeah, like sailor said, that is your cervix, make sure you are totally fully aroused, my husband has hit that a few times and I HATE IT! I swear its like my OFF button. lol.

When it does happen it happens right around when I am about to start a period cuz my cervix has moved down.

I agree with sailor, if he constantly hits it tell him not to go so deep or do LOTS of oral and foreplay to get you fully aroused.

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