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rimming and anal sex Question posted: 06/23/06 at 4:20 AM
shawna2004  [more]
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Ok, for some of u this will be gross. Sorry. But need to know.

Do straight guys liked to be rimmed and perform anal sex? The reason I'm asking is that my husband's brother told me that he (my husband) had talked about fantasies with me rimming him and having anal sex with me. I have been grossed out until now. I've done a LOT of reading on it and MIGHT be okay with it. Any pointers?

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posted: 06/23/06 at 4:23 AM

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Do a search on "anal play" and "prostate stimulation".

I'm sure you will see that there are plenty of straight guys who like it a lot.

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posted: 06/23/06 at 4:34 AM

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I don't think it is gross at all. I love to rim my wife as often as I can. She has not returned that favor yet but has used her finger a little and it feels great!

What couples do is up to them.

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posted: 06/23/06 at 4:39 AM
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Thanks for the replies. Keep them coming (no pun intended). I really want to be open minded but I have a lot of fear too. Rimming my husband won't be a problem. But I am very self conscious and worry about odor, fecal matter, etc.

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posted: 06/23/06 at 4:50 AM

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My wife is so clean. Don't worry about that. In those moments when I get to rim my wife, it is so hot I am so horny. I think it is erotic to the max! I love to run my tongue all the way up her backside and even stop and tease the little opening! Where is that girl?

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posted: 06/23/06 at 5:21 AM

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Well, there is nothing in the anal passage until you actually have to go to the bathroom. So, as long as one has had a bowel movement and then taken a bath or shower ... he/she should be clean.


Actually, there can be "residual matter" hanging out in there. Anal play can be very messy, regardless of whether one needs to have a bowel movement.

(I just want the OP to be prepared for what may be a very real situation, if she decides to pursue this)

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posted: 06/23/06 at 5:33 AM

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Well, yeah, if it works for you, great. It doesn't work for everyone, and I wouldn't want someone who is unsure about this to begin with to be under the impression that it's something that is "clean", because it's not.

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posted: 06/23/06 at 5:41 AM

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I say jus make sure he washes thoroughly before you do anything. I have heard of quite a few guys who are into it. Obviously the human body can never be fully clean but you can at least try. You might want to read up on it a little more before doing anything. Lubrication will be a main part of it will hurt if theres actual penetration.

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posted: 06/23/06 at 5:55 AM
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This is something I have just started doing in the past week or so. My husband always has a shower immediately beforehand so he smells and tastes nice and has never been unclean.

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posted: 06/23/06 at 7:34 AM

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Lucky guys! I'd do her right now if she was here!

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