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Watching People Have Sex  posted: 04/28/06 at 9:43 PM
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Hi all.
I have mentioned to my fiance about my wanting to watch another couple have sex. I think it would be a turn on for me. I have never watched before but might want to try it.
I want my fiance to be there with me too because I wouldn't want to watch alone.
I am just wondering what other people's thoughts are on this and if you have done it, did you like it?
For the people who have been watched, did you like that?
-the female half of NorthrnPride-
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posted: 04/28/06 at 11:10 PM
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I've never been watched and have never watched anyone. It seems a lot different than porn since there's the danger of being caught whereas there's no potential for interaction or danger with porn. I don't think it's something I want to try particularly, sex in a semi-public place for a change of atmosphere seems fine, but the "risk" of getting caught doesn't tittilate me at all. If I have the opportunity to watch I think I probably would, just to see what they do together and compare it with our performance. Maybe they could have some good techniques?? As far as being watched, I can be a bit possessive, so I wouldn't want another guy watching my girlfriend in such a position.
There was a time in my apartment where I'm 100 percent sure my room mates heard us, and we laughed about it quietly but didn't stop.. I don't know if it counts but it's a little voyeuristic (not really, we just couldn't wait anymore and because of an issue with the door it could only close 3/4 of the way.. was really good sex though, but both preferred if there was more privacy)
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posted: 04/29/06 at 3:16 AM
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| I've actually had sex while another couple was doing the same (don't suggest this unless your boyfriend/husband/whoever is comfortable with themselves) I've been watched but have never watched another couple. I think tha would b sexy nothing like porn since you'll be up close and personal and will know this is passion not some staged event.
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posted: 04/29/06 at 5:00 AM
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The closest I ever came to something like this was when I was with an ex who shared a bedroom with his brother. The brother and their friend walked in on us in the middle of the day and began changing clothes. I just gave them this odd look and they told me not to stop on their acct.  I was on top so, I told them ok, as long as they didn't stop on mine.  I thought it was hot. We frequently had sex in that same room at night with others around. Only one guy friend ever complained and would tell us to knock it off. That same friend later asked me when I was going out with him.
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posted: 04/29/06 at 7:59 AM
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I think it's a hot fantasy.
It's really like 'real life' porn, and everyone likes watching porn.
I guess if it was something you were really interested in, you could join one of those dating sites, there are always couples looking for other couples, so you could probably find someone today who shares your fantasy and was willing to have sex in the same room as you.
I've never tried one of these sites, a couple once asked me if I was interested in a 3 some a few years ago... lol. But I declined.
As they say, you only live once, so if it's something you have always had the desire to do, then try it!
I would set some ground rules before hand though, like no partner swapping, if you just wanted to watch. Another tip, dont' do it with friends, try to do it with strangers, so there is no friendship loss, or awkwardness afterwards.
But, it sounds hot, so go for it! 
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