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I finally met a girl that I like.... Smile posted: 01/20/06 at 11:06 PM
x2jesse1x  [more]
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Well its been about 7 months since My ast serious relationship. I have gone on several dates in the time inbetween but I have never either been attracted or had any intrest in the girls. Well I recently went on a date with a very special girl . I really like her. I just dont wanna move to fast and mess things up. I talk to this girl every day. We are going to go out again real soon. I cant stop thinking about her! I just have a question...

1. How long until it is safe to tell her how I feel?

and any other advice on how i should go about this situation would be GREAT...

Thanks

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posted: 01/21/06 at 12:27 AM

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I think it all depends on how long you two have been together. If you two are just friend or only went on a couple of dates, I wouldn't move too fast or express how you feel. Part of the fun when you first start dating a new person is getting to know someone.

You could tell her that you have a lot of fun with her and would like to know her better. Don't come on too strong too fast. If you do, you could scare her off.

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posted: 01/21/06 at 10:41 AM
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Exactly...well said HellYaImNuts, I agree. Girls (most, anyways) don't like it when a guy comes on too strong too fast. We want to feel like you enjoy our company, yes, but don't want to feel like you say this to everyone. We like feeling special

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posted: 01/21/06 at 1:51 PM

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Originally posted by ds02
Exactly...well said HellYaImNuts, I agree. Girls (most, anyways) don't like it when a guy comes on too strong too fast. We want to feel like you enjoy our company, yes, but don't want to feel like you say this to everyone. We like feeling special



Agree...the more time a man spends trying to get to know me better, the more I will appreciate his attention. If he comes on too strong, I may think he only wants to sleep with me or that he'll be really intense for a few weeks, then his interest will fade. Also, if you express feelings before there is enough history to back it up...it's kind of a let down...the romantic build-up of the dating process is what's fun and what I think women enjoy.

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