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Lovingyou.com > Pillow Talk > Sexually Speaking > How long does it take a guy to cum?
If a guy hasn't had sex in a while
will he cum fast
will it take him a while to cum
will it be about average
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How long does it take a guy to cum? Lightbulb posted: 04/06/05 at 7:32 AM
Hotchick6983  [more]
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Ok, I'm just curious.....if a guy cums fast does that mean its been a long time since he has had sex? Or if a guy takes a long time to cum, does that mean he has had too much sex?

I'm just curious, if a guy hasn't had sex in a while....will he cum fast or will it take a while?

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posted: 04/06/05 at 9:05 AM

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I think it depens on the guy. For me, if it's been a while and I'm all worked up, it could be pretty fast. However, round 2,3, etc. I will last alot longer.
If I'm having sex on a regular basis, I can last much longer on round one if I want to.

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posted: 04/06/05 at 9:46 AM

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depends on the guy- I'd like to say it all depends on the quality of sex he's partaking in....the more pleasure he's feeling- the quicker he cums- unless he can hold it a bit longer. But a man getting it everyday 2 times a day can still cum fast. Just all depends
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posted: 04/06/05 at 10:23 AM

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From my experience, the longer I go without coming, the harder and faster I'll cum when I finally do it again.

All guys are different now...you can't guage how long it's been since a guy had sex from how long it takes him to cum.

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posted: 04/06/05 at 10:54 AM
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My guy cums fairly quick when it's been a while. But, like Paul said, you can't really judge that. Some guys just have premature ejaculation and they just can't hold it very long.

They are all different. We'll never understand them.

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posted: 04/06/05 at 12:07 PM

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It depends on the guy and the sex! My guy is like Iccfresh. If we dont do it for a whlie, he cums fairly quickly. But then once we do it again he can last for hours if he wants to, or minutes if he wants to depending on how long we both want it to last lol.

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posted: 04/07/05 at 8:25 PM

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I agree! It depends on a man, the pleasure and mood.

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Talking posted: 04/07/05 at 10:14 PM

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Another factor not getting mentioned here is that experience/ age plays a role too. When i was first married, I would reach my climax/ cum quickly, within 2 minutes. As I have aged and gained better control, if I focus, I can take as much as 15 minutes before I climax. It's not very pleasurable when it takes that long. Makes my lady raw, actually! And lately, the last 2 years have had her working out-of-town. I generally get her home every 3 - 4 weekends, but this last two months, she's been gone for 6 weeks on this work project.

Some reunions have 5 minutes to climax, and others take 10 minutes!

Depends on the guy!

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posted: 04/08/05 at 5:50 AM

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My husband takes 15-30 minutes to cum, depending on if it's oral, hj, intercourse, etc.

...and as far as if a guy cums if he hasn't came in awhile, that isn't the case for my husband, he's pretty consistent.

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posted: 04/08/05 at 7:51 AM

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Yes, it all depends on the guy, age, situation, etc...

I have cum in less than 5 min and I have also cum after 20 min of straight intercourse.

A woman breathing hard while she masturbates and talking dirty in my ear? About 3 min is all it would take.

A woman lying there just getting f**ked? About a half hour.

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